Hello im 19 and i need some advice. My only friend moved away and i just graduated highschool, I have no friends, no family (I went threw highschool on my own living on my own) and I have a mild case of A.D.D which makes me feel that it prevents me from making friends because I feel I will not fit in somehow. What should I do, I want to move far away because there is nothign left for me here, my lease is up at the end of septemberI need some serious life advice?
okay just go ahead do dat i mean no1 is holding ur back!!! HELLOOOOOOO!!! u said dat u r 19 so go ahead move away!!I need some serious life advice?
Hi Josh,
I am so sorry. People shouldn't treat you with dis-respect because you have A.D.D.
Why don't you move where your ';only'; friend moved?
Since you want to move far away, I think that it is a good idea! I hope everything goes well!
Good Luck!
with or without ADD, you only have a high school diploma and may need more education. Then again maybe not. You need to answer questions like that in order to kind of come to some conclusions as to what you want out of your life. From there you can decide where to go and what to do when you get there.
I know ADD is a drag in many repsects but also know it need not hinder you from succeeding in setting and reaching lots of goals. One of my closest friends has it as well and he is doing fine. Sure he could do more or better if he weren't so easily distracted but he's made amazing progress in life despite it. So, think things through and set forth to achieve good things. You are able to...
ight dude listen up my brother has add too and let me tell you its not the disorder that makes you think you don't fit in. its just everybody's mind that does it. anyway to make new friends try and get out of the house go to places where you like to be if you like hiking go hiking if you like swimming go swimming just do the things that make you enjoy life and eventually someone may come around that has the same interest. it may not sound like it works but it does. if you just be yourself and do the things you love the best you'll most likely find some people who you can be friends with and have some great times with. you just have to give it some time. not every thing happens at one time in one place. don't give up though. that will never work out in the end.
go to college, or travel... find yourself!good luck
may be you can through a block party and make new friends or through a party and make friends there.
Good Luck! :)
You can move but it's not going to change anything...problems follow :( I know it seems like you don't fit in but it's not because you have ADD i think almost EVERYONE feels that way...I guess we all need to find a group of people who accept us for who we are and love us for who we are too...not everyone is going to like us thats just the way it is... Good Luck!
It sounds like you haven't quite figured out who you are or what you want to do with your life. Have you considered college? It can give you good direction with your life, not to mention a solid future and a guarantee of making friends. If you think you can't afford it, take out a loan using FAFSA. Most of the time the government will grant you money.
If college isn't what you want, is there a job you want in particular? Do you have a solid one already? Maybe try joining a community sports team or becoming a part of an organization.
A.D.D. won't prevent you from making friends unless you allow it to.
Good luck.
Go man. Go somewhere you think would be really cool. Youre at a good time in your life where you dont have things tying you down. And when you get to a new town no one will think its odd you dont have friends if you are new to town. And dont feel weird. Ive known people so weird i know youre not as weird of them and they had friends.
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