Life isn't randomly thrown at you, YOU make it the way it is. YOU shape your future, you can choose to put the past behind you and focus on what is in store for you. Or you can choose to dwell in the past, where the future is a mystery, and what is put in front of you is what you get. What you get may not be what you want, what you want most likely won't be what you get. I need general life advice please?
Life is what YOU make it. It's down to the choices we make %26amp; the reactions we give to good or bad episodes. You cant blame anybody else for the way things turn out.I need general life advice please?
The past is history
Tomorrow is a mystery
Today is a gift, thats why they call it the present.
Hope it helped :)
Viva forever, I'll be waiting,
Everlasting like the sun,
Live forever, for the moment,
..........
learn to live with-in yourself. don't depend on others. and never a borrower, or lender be. mind your own business.
smile because life only gets worse! :)
stay healty
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Dry Hair - Need advice to get some life into it?
I've got hair that is very bushy,and thick but problematically, feels like straw. I've tried everything I can think of: hot wax treatment, deep conditions etc.
Please helpDry Hair - Need advice to get some life into it?
1 rule for all hair types DO NOT USE A BLOW DRYER!
here are 2 steps you can try on your hair.
1. Beat an egg in a cup of skimmed milk. When the foam becomes consistent, rub it into the scalp. Leave it on for 5 minutes. Rinse the hair thoroughly with water. Carry out this routine twice a week.
2. Take a cup of coconut milk and add two tablespoons of gram flour or one teaspoon of shikakai. Apply on your scalp and hair and massage gently. Rinse it out after five minutes. Follow this recipe at least once a week.Dry Hair - Need advice to get some life into it?
First, don't blow dry, curl, or straighten your hair if you can help it. The heat really dries it out. If it's very damaged and dry, try Biolage shampoo and conditioners. They're expensive, but work GREAT. You can buy them at salons. By the way, you should talk to your hair stylist about getting your hair thinned. If it's really bushy and thick, getting a shorter, thinner hair style will make it easier to care for.
(: I hope this helps you out!
hmm lets see...... my mother was an expert on hair. her hair is absolutely gorgeous!! after washing it let it air dry a little then blow dry nice and smooth. gt some mouse. also.... leave in conditioner from Paul Mitchell.. hope this helps!!! (: (: (: bye bye for now!!!
use pantene trust me i had the same problem
Please helpDry Hair - Need advice to get some life into it?
1 rule for all hair types DO NOT USE A BLOW DRYER!
here are 2 steps you can try on your hair.
1. Beat an egg in a cup of skimmed milk. When the foam becomes consistent, rub it into the scalp. Leave it on for 5 minutes. Rinse the hair thoroughly with water. Carry out this routine twice a week.
2. Take a cup of coconut milk and add two tablespoons of gram flour or one teaspoon of shikakai. Apply on your scalp and hair and massage gently. Rinse it out after five minutes. Follow this recipe at least once a week.Dry Hair - Need advice to get some life into it?
First, don't blow dry, curl, or straighten your hair if you can help it. The heat really dries it out. If it's very damaged and dry, try Biolage shampoo and conditioners. They're expensive, but work GREAT. You can buy them at salons. By the way, you should talk to your hair stylist about getting your hair thinned. If it's really bushy and thick, getting a shorter, thinner hair style will make it easier to care for.
(: I hope this helps you out!
hmm lets see...... my mother was an expert on hair. her hair is absolutely gorgeous!! after washing it let it air dry a little then blow dry nice and smooth. gt some mouse. also.... leave in conditioner from Paul Mitchell.. hope this helps!!! (: (: (: bye bye for now!!!
use pantene trust me i had the same problem
Yesterday, my elderley Mother had a fit for the first time in her life. She has dementia. Any advice?
She is 77 years old. She had a fit for the very first time. Doctor told me that it was common with patients suffering from dementia. What I want to know is the correct procedure and what to do if it happens again. Please post links to the best sites for this. Remember, she does NOT have epilepsy (but I suppose a fit is all of the same kind?)Yesterday, my elderley Mother had a fit for the first time in her life. She has dementia. Any advice?
What you really need to do is ask your doctor for advice on what to do if she fits whilst with you . certainly you must try not to panic , remain calm and try to prevent your mum from hurting herself
There are particular things like the way you hold the patient , and ensure air ways remain open but that needs the medical people close to your case to advise
This must be very distressing for you all and I send my best wishesYesterday, my elderley Mother had a fit for the first time in her life. She has dementia. Any advice?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Recovery_po鈥?/a>
Put her in the recovery position. Well ventilated room and keep her hydrated.
It IS common with anyone who has any type of brain damage (as dementia is).
Unless your mum's doctor thinks it necessary for her to take medication (which in itself would affect her brain, and possibly interact with any other medication she takes), there is nothing you can do. The chances of her having fits on a regular basis are very small, and that fit may have even been a one-off.
IF you are ever present during a fit, simply ensure that your mum doesn't injure herself when she falls or thrashes about. Hold her hand, talk reassuringly, in a quiet voice, until the fit stops. Then make her comfortable (cushion under her head, blanket over her, etc) until she feels able to get up and sit on a chair. NEVER put anything in a person's mouth during a fit, and do NOT give them any medicines, tablets, food or drink, until they are completely awake and alert.
IF a fit lasts for longer than 5 minutes, ring 999 for an ambulance. IF the patient bites their tongue, don't worry - it will heal perfectly well, and does not require medical assistance.
Lastly, seeing someone having a fit can be upsetting, but looks much worse than it is. Keep calm, don't panic, and offer reassurance to the patient. The person having the fit will usually feel tired,and may sleep a lot, after a fit. A headache often follows, too.
in the uk there are care agencies who will come in and take a look at your situation...
they will advise of how to go about giving the best care for most types of age related illnesses..
You could either see the doctor and get some advice and pamphlets.
Or The St John's Ambulance teach people this things.
Or find a society for people who have dementia and ask their advice.
I do hope you sort this soon. Good luck.
That must have been very harrowing, I'm annoyed that your doc didn't tell you what to do if it happens again - surely that's basic patient care information that you need. However, I've had a look and can't find any information on people with alzheimer's having fits, but try teh Alzheimer's society because they have lots of support and information. Good luck to you.
There are many things you can do to help your loved one be safe at home. For example, get rid of throw rugs, and put handrails in bathrooms to help prevent falls. Post reminder notes around the house. Put a list of important phone numbers by the telephone. You also can help your loved one stay active. Play cards or board games, and take walks.
Work with your loved one to make decisions about the future before dementia gets worse. It is important to write a living will and a durable power of attorney. A living will states the types of medical care your loved one wants. A durable power of attorney lets your loved one pick someone to be the health care agent. This person makes care decisions after your loved one cannot.
Watching a loved one slip away can be sad and scary. Caring for someone with dementia can leave you feeling drained. Be sure to take care of yourself and to give yourself breaks. Ask family members to share the load, or get other help.
Your loved one will need more and more care as dementia gets worse. In time, he or she may need help to eat, get dressed, or use the bathroom. You may be able to give this care at home, or you may want to think about using a nursing home. A nursing home can give this kind of care 24 hours a day. The time may come when a nursing home is the best choice.
You are not alone. Many people have loved ones with dementia. Ask your doctor about local support groups, or search the Internet for online support groups, such as the Alzheimer's Association. Help is available.
What you really need to do is ask your doctor for advice on what to do if she fits whilst with you . certainly you must try not to panic , remain calm and try to prevent your mum from hurting herself
There are particular things like the way you hold the patient , and ensure air ways remain open but that needs the medical people close to your case to advise
This must be very distressing for you all and I send my best wishesYesterday, my elderley Mother had a fit for the first time in her life. She has dementia. Any advice?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Recovery_po鈥?/a>
Put her in the recovery position. Well ventilated room and keep her hydrated.
It IS common with anyone who has any type of brain damage (as dementia is).
Unless your mum's doctor thinks it necessary for her to take medication (which in itself would affect her brain, and possibly interact with any other medication she takes), there is nothing you can do. The chances of her having fits on a regular basis are very small, and that fit may have even been a one-off.
IF you are ever present during a fit, simply ensure that your mum doesn't injure herself when she falls or thrashes about. Hold her hand, talk reassuringly, in a quiet voice, until the fit stops. Then make her comfortable (cushion under her head, blanket over her, etc) until she feels able to get up and sit on a chair. NEVER put anything in a person's mouth during a fit, and do NOT give them any medicines, tablets, food or drink, until they are completely awake and alert.
IF a fit lasts for longer than 5 minutes, ring 999 for an ambulance. IF the patient bites their tongue, don't worry - it will heal perfectly well, and does not require medical assistance.
Lastly, seeing someone having a fit can be upsetting, but looks much worse than it is. Keep calm, don't panic, and offer reassurance to the patient. The person having the fit will usually feel tired,and may sleep a lot, after a fit. A headache often follows, too.
in the uk there are care agencies who will come in and take a look at your situation...
they will advise of how to go about giving the best care for most types of age related illnesses..
You could either see the doctor and get some advice and pamphlets.
Or The St John's Ambulance teach people this things.
Or find a society for people who have dementia and ask their advice.
I do hope you sort this soon. Good luck.
That must have been very harrowing, I'm annoyed that your doc didn't tell you what to do if it happens again - surely that's basic patient care information that you need. However, I've had a look and can't find any information on people with alzheimer's having fits, but try teh Alzheimer's society because they have lots of support and information. Good luck to you.
There are many things you can do to help your loved one be safe at home. For example, get rid of throw rugs, and put handrails in bathrooms to help prevent falls. Post reminder notes around the house. Put a list of important phone numbers by the telephone. You also can help your loved one stay active. Play cards or board games, and take walks.
Work with your loved one to make decisions about the future before dementia gets worse. It is important to write a living will and a durable power of attorney. A living will states the types of medical care your loved one wants. A durable power of attorney lets your loved one pick someone to be the health care agent. This person makes care decisions after your loved one cannot.
Watching a loved one slip away can be sad and scary. Caring for someone with dementia can leave you feeling drained. Be sure to take care of yourself and to give yourself breaks. Ask family members to share the load, or get other help.
Your loved one will need more and more care as dementia gets worse. In time, he or she may need help to eat, get dressed, or use the bathroom. You may be able to give this care at home, or you may want to think about using a nursing home. A nursing home can give this kind of care 24 hours a day. The time may come when a nursing home is the best choice.
You are not alone. Many people have loved ones with dementia. Ask your doctor about local support groups, or search the Internet for online support groups, such as the Alzheimer's Association. Help is available.
Question for older people, what good life advice can you give somebody in their early twenties? It can be?
whatever kind of advice such as financial, personal, etc.Question for older people, what good life advice can you give somebody in their early twenties? It can be?
Keep your finances in order. If you have credit cards, car payments, etc.....pay them on time. Don't accept every credit card offer out there. They can bury you if you take on too much. You will need that good credit rating down the road.
Have fun. Live life like it was meant to be lived. Enjoy yourself!Question for older people, what good life advice can you give somebody in their early twenties? It can be?
I'M 60 YEARS OLD
MY ADVICE ON ANYTHING IS
''GO FOR IT''
Don't worry what others think of you. PERIOD. Great to ask for all the advice, but only do what feels right for you! Nothing personal right now will matter when you hit 40. You will actually laugh and wonder why in god's name it mattered in your twenties. Drink lots of water so you'll continue your good looks, and YES TAKE CARE OF YOUR teeth! That's not a joke! Generally, tooth care is genetics, so do ALL you can so ya don't lose 'em! Look at your parents and see your future teeth! ack! Also.........pft on all that exercise crap. Eat well, sure, get enough exercise, but HAVE FUN cos it's all gona be over before you know it!
I'm a mother of 21 year old twins boy/girl and this is my advise to them ...
1. Go to college and finish if possible.
2. Find yourself a decent job with room for advancement
3. Buy only what you need and pay cash for it.
4. Use credit cards for emergencies only and pay the balance off at the end of the billing period.if possible.
5. Always remember to pay yourself by saving money.(every little amount adds up to a whole lot in the long run).
6. Do not rush into making big dicisions without carefully weighing all of the pros and cons ... using the (process of elimanation).
7. Treat people the way you expect to be treated!
I wish you the very best in your lifes journey!
Christopher S has a great response, the biggest problem people have as they get older is financial obligations from when they didn't know any better. By the time you start to realize how much trouble credit can be, it is too late. Now, with that in mind, you MUST get a good credit rating while you can. That means all credit you take out (other than long term like a house or car) should be paid off immediately. If you don't have enough excess money to invest in regular investments, try municipal bonds or whole life insurance (I know, there are better returns than insurance, but those returns are for people who have lots of money to begin with - I started a whole life policy when I was 20 and the cash value is over 25,000 right now, it will max out at about 120,000 in another twenty years).
I know this is the punchline of a lot of jokes, but TAKE CARE OF YOUR TEETH!!! Even with dental insurance, root canals are a pain and are still expensive.
Live like there's no tomorrow. Because this may be truer than we
think. Don't worry. Just Live.
Just know that whatever you do in life, whatever path you take, its always a good choice. Everything that you are put through or go through or whatever, has a god meaning behind it.
The first thing, maybe I should say almost the only thing that you should have in your mind is your career. You can go to school, get a good education, and be a manager over a group of flunkies. Or you can fail to get the education, and be one of the flunkies. The choice is yours.
Another point, in everything you do, ask yourself, '; Will this make me a better person, will I be liked more or less by my doing or saying this ';? Never show anger. If someone says something insulting to you, answer back politely. He expects you to fly off the handle. A polite answer catches him off guard.
There is only one degree of truthfulness and honesty, 100%.
In your talk and carriage show self confidence, be sure of yourself. In conversation, never guess. Say things you know to be accurate, or admit that you don't know.
stay out of debt. save up and pay cash.
Learn to ';roll with the flow'; life will be so much easier.
I'm not exactly ';older';, only 31, but my advice to younger people is to STAY AWAY FROM CREDIT CARDS. Especially department store ones. If you feel that you should have one, have ONE, with as low an interest rate as possible.
Keep your finances in order. If you have credit cards, car payments, etc.....pay them on time. Don't accept every credit card offer out there. They can bury you if you take on too much. You will need that good credit rating down the road.
Have fun. Live life like it was meant to be lived. Enjoy yourself!Question for older people, what good life advice can you give somebody in their early twenties? It can be?
I'M 60 YEARS OLD
MY ADVICE ON ANYTHING IS
''GO FOR IT''
Don't worry what others think of you. PERIOD. Great to ask for all the advice, but only do what feels right for you! Nothing personal right now will matter when you hit 40. You will actually laugh and wonder why in god's name it mattered in your twenties. Drink lots of water so you'll continue your good looks, and YES TAKE CARE OF YOUR teeth! That's not a joke! Generally, tooth care is genetics, so do ALL you can so ya don't lose 'em! Look at your parents and see your future teeth! ack! Also.........pft on all that exercise crap. Eat well, sure, get enough exercise, but HAVE FUN cos it's all gona be over before you know it!
I'm a mother of 21 year old twins boy/girl and this is my advise to them ...
1. Go to college and finish if possible.
2. Find yourself a decent job with room for advancement
3. Buy only what you need and pay cash for it.
4. Use credit cards for emergencies only and pay the balance off at the end of the billing period.if possible.
5. Always remember to pay yourself by saving money.(every little amount adds up to a whole lot in the long run).
6. Do not rush into making big dicisions without carefully weighing all of the pros and cons ... using the (process of elimanation).
7. Treat people the way you expect to be treated!
I wish you the very best in your lifes journey!
Christopher S has a great response, the biggest problem people have as they get older is financial obligations from when they didn't know any better. By the time you start to realize how much trouble credit can be, it is too late. Now, with that in mind, you MUST get a good credit rating while you can. That means all credit you take out (other than long term like a house or car) should be paid off immediately. If you don't have enough excess money to invest in regular investments, try municipal bonds or whole life insurance (I know, there are better returns than insurance, but those returns are for people who have lots of money to begin with - I started a whole life policy when I was 20 and the cash value is over 25,000 right now, it will max out at about 120,000 in another twenty years).
I know this is the punchline of a lot of jokes, but TAKE CARE OF YOUR TEETH!!! Even with dental insurance, root canals are a pain and are still expensive.
Live like there's no tomorrow. Because this may be truer than we
think. Don't worry. Just Live.
Just know that whatever you do in life, whatever path you take, its always a good choice. Everything that you are put through or go through or whatever, has a god meaning behind it.
The first thing, maybe I should say almost the only thing that you should have in your mind is your career. You can go to school, get a good education, and be a manager over a group of flunkies. Or you can fail to get the education, and be one of the flunkies. The choice is yours.
Another point, in everything you do, ask yourself, '; Will this make me a better person, will I be liked more or less by my doing or saying this ';? Never show anger. If someone says something insulting to you, answer back politely. He expects you to fly off the handle. A polite answer catches him off guard.
There is only one degree of truthfulness and honesty, 100%.
In your talk and carriage show self confidence, be sure of yourself. In conversation, never guess. Say things you know to be accurate, or admit that you don't know.
stay out of debt. save up and pay cash.
Learn to ';roll with the flow'; life will be so much easier.
I'm not exactly ';older';, only 31, but my advice to younger people is to STAY AWAY FROM CREDIT CARDS. Especially department store ones. If you feel that you should have one, have ONE, with as low an interest rate as possible.
I have a 2 inch penis,& it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
I'm sorry. Why don't you ask your doctor for advice? You will want to reproduce one day and enjoy sex with your future wife.I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
Look at the bright side dude, at least you have genetials. Unlike me.
We members of the coffee table race are doomed to become pregnant whenever someone forgets to use a coster.I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
nope you are not doomed bruh. you are just a white guy
it elongates AFTER ejaculation? You may want to see a doctor.
My sympathies
commit suicide
no but seriously see a docter
Yes you are doomed. But don't they do extensions now?
Wow, sucks to be you bro.
2 inches? WTF? I don't believe you. Are you like 10?
you need help
aww man that suckzx
talk to a doctor!!!how to apply
Look at the bright side dude, at least you have genetials. Unlike me.
We members of the coffee table race are doomed to become pregnant whenever someone forgets to use a coster.I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
nope you are not doomed bruh. you are just a white guy
it elongates AFTER ejaculation? You may want to see a doctor.
My sympathies
commit suicide
no but seriously see a docter
Yes you are doomed. But don't they do extensions now?
Wow, sucks to be you bro.
2 inches? WTF? I don't believe you. Are you like 10?
you need help
aww man that suckzx
talk to a doctor!!!
I have a 2 inch penis,& it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
Ron, not all girls care, just learn how to use your tongue to compensate. I won't lie, though, some do. Just don't be too afraid of the ones who do to find the ones that don't.I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
You have so much worry over something so little. Its the having numerous Sex with many other People that causes the problem. read on
Sexual “Leprosy”
◆ It is estimated that as many as 14 million Americans may have genital herpes, and about half a million more get it every year. It is one of the most common venereal diseases. At present there is no cure. It is transmitted by sexual intercourse, including oral sex. From 2 to 8 days after sexual contact, small red bumps appear on the victim’s genitals. These bumps rapidly become painful blisters that can burst and pour out millions of virus particles. The sores heal, but the viruses lodge in nerves near the lower spinal cord and remain there for life. They can return without warning at any time. Each year many babies are born with the disease. More than half of them die, and the survivors often suffer permanent damage. Commenting on the problem, Time magazine stated: “One obvious way to control the disease is abstinence from sex.” Persons who heed the Bible’s counsel to “flee from fornication” have no problem with genital herpes, and can thus marry free from the disease.—1 Cor. 6:18.I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
Strange about it growing after ejaculation, that might amuse someone, somewhere, for a short period of time, it`s very unlikely, but you never know.
I would say that you are doomed.
No worries though, you could try and seek celebrity via the Guinness Book.
penile enhancement is growing in popularity among the plastic surgery procedures men undergo these days.
start saving your pennies needle **** you will need them.
if you don't want to have the surgery you could always just tie a board across your *** during sex so you don't fall in.
Your penis gets bigger after ejaculation? Weird...
Just act like a tough guy, buy a mustang, spend 2 hours a day in the gym, and string together a slew of one night stands until someone pities you enough to marry you. That's what all the other people with small penises do.
Yes your doomed.
by the way your in the wrong section its pretty funny though.
obvious troll is obvious
Learn about anatomy and physiology before trolling again...
Bleh. 2 points.
You could use diaphragms as condoms...
The Lord holds you accountable for every idle word you speak.
Get a magnifying glass and a pair of tweezers!!
Try cunnilingus or rimming...women (and men) love it! Best of luck, mate!
you'll be fine. just do small penis fetish porn til you die.
yeah your doomed its in the bible ha ha
You have so much worry over something so little. Its the having numerous Sex with many other People that causes the problem. read on
Sexual “Leprosy”
◆ It is estimated that as many as 14 million Americans may have genital herpes, and about half a million more get it every year. It is one of the most common venereal diseases. At present there is no cure. It is transmitted by sexual intercourse, including oral sex. From 2 to 8 days after sexual contact, small red bumps appear on the victim’s genitals. These bumps rapidly become painful blisters that can burst and pour out millions of virus particles. The sores heal, but the viruses lodge in nerves near the lower spinal cord and remain there for life. They can return without warning at any time. Each year many babies are born with the disease. More than half of them die, and the survivors often suffer permanent damage. Commenting on the problem, Time magazine stated: “One obvious way to control the disease is abstinence from sex.” Persons who heed the Bible’s counsel to “flee from fornication” have no problem with genital herpes, and can thus marry free from the disease.—1 Cor. 6:18.I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
Strange about it growing after ejaculation, that might amuse someone, somewhere, for a short period of time, it`s very unlikely, but you never know.
I would say that you are doomed.
No worries though, you could try and seek celebrity via the Guinness Book.
penile enhancement is growing in popularity among the plastic surgery procedures men undergo these days.
start saving your pennies needle **** you will need them.
if you don't want to have the surgery you could always just tie a board across your *** during sex so you don't fall in.
Your penis gets bigger after ejaculation? Weird...
Just act like a tough guy, buy a mustang, spend 2 hours a day in the gym, and string together a slew of one night stands until someone pities you enough to marry you. That's what all the other people with small penises do.
Yes your doomed.
by the way your in the wrong section its pretty funny though.
obvious troll is obvious
Learn about anatomy and physiology before trolling again...
Bleh. 2 points.
You could use diaphragms as condoms...
The Lord holds you accountable for every idle word you speak.
Get a magnifying glass and a pair of tweezers!!
Try cunnilingus or rimming...women (and men) love it! Best of luck, mate!
you'll be fine. just do small penis fetish porn til you die.
yeah your doomed its in the bible ha ha
More love life advice?
I took the advice from my last question and have set my sights on a single girl. I really like her, and want to ask her out, but I do not know if I can do it. I am not very experienced in this kind of thing. Can anyone tell me how to ask her out, or even if to at all?More love life advice?
Just get the courage and ask her or ask her over the phone.More love life advice?
Just talk to her....
Just get the courage and ask her or ask her over the phone.More love life advice?
Just talk to her....
What advice would you give to a younger version of you if u were dying/older/have more life experience?
seize the day? do what you want to do in life? dont be afraid?
stay in college? dont go to college?
money is important? or it is not?
your family is important? success is important?
i just need guidance.What advice would you give to a younger version of you if u were dying/older/have more life experience?
that all depends on you really but i would have to say stay in school it may seem like a waste of time but if you go ahead and get it over with you will reap the rewards it brings being more money for you which is not the most important thing in life but we all need it to survive and every once in awhile treat our selves because we deserve it and family is very important but let me point out family is not limited to only blood relatives in life we develop relationships with other People that we consider just as close if not closer to family it is nice to have someone that is there for you even if they are not related to you at all we are all human and making mistakes is ok but it's what we learn from those mistakes that matters older means more experience and not always wiser and life goes on no matter what happens and the world has not stopped and neither should we when life deals us a bad hand we have to keep moving fore ward it's only when you completely have given up that you have failed so keep trying because success doesn't always happen over nightWhat advice would you give to a younger version of you if u were dying/older/have more life experience?
Be a good person. Be kind to others. Treat others as you would want to be treated, but don't be a door mat either. Remember, there is only one of you in this entire world, and this makes you special. Get every chance you can to learn, because ignorance will get you nowhere in life. Remember where you came from, because if it weren't for them, you wouldn't be here. Success means nothing if you can't be happy or share it with those you love. And if you are fortunate enough to live a successful life, than share it with those less fortunate than you. Oh, and don't ever put me in an old folks home. LOL
I couldn't give a younger version of myself any advice because I wouldn't have listened. I guess I would go to those who were hurting or neglectful at the time and set them straight. Also I would by my younger self some nice clothes, take me to Europe, show me there was more to life. Allot more.
OH MY GOD! I HAVE A LIST
-before college, take a course in something..like medical billing so that you can have a stable job during college.
-Pay attention to math...A LOT MORE.
-think optimistic
-Dont get your hopes up for anyone AND NEVER SHOW ANY GUY THAT YOU WANT THEM-well this I always knew I just didnt follow it bc we get lost that we forget about ourselves at time
Because of these things and even more, I advise my brother and sister as much as I could on things...there are things that people told me.
Be strong and dont be afraid myself soon to be :P
if i can i'll make sure the little guy face his fear before going back hehe.
edit: actually nevermind i think i learned alot from what had happen. Lets me suffer
stay in college? dont go to college?
money is important? or it is not?
your family is important? success is important?
i just need guidance.What advice would you give to a younger version of you if u were dying/older/have more life experience?
that all depends on you really but i would have to say stay in school it may seem like a waste of time but if you go ahead and get it over with you will reap the rewards it brings being more money for you which is not the most important thing in life but we all need it to survive and every once in awhile treat our selves because we deserve it and family is very important but let me point out family is not limited to only blood relatives in life we develop relationships with other People that we consider just as close if not closer to family it is nice to have someone that is there for you even if they are not related to you at all we are all human and making mistakes is ok but it's what we learn from those mistakes that matters older means more experience and not always wiser and life goes on no matter what happens and the world has not stopped and neither should we when life deals us a bad hand we have to keep moving fore ward it's only when you completely have given up that you have failed so keep trying because success doesn't always happen over nightWhat advice would you give to a younger version of you if u were dying/older/have more life experience?
Be a good person. Be kind to others. Treat others as you would want to be treated, but don't be a door mat either. Remember, there is only one of you in this entire world, and this makes you special. Get every chance you can to learn, because ignorance will get you nowhere in life. Remember where you came from, because if it weren't for them, you wouldn't be here. Success means nothing if you can't be happy or share it with those you love. And if you are fortunate enough to live a successful life, than share it with those less fortunate than you. Oh, and don't ever put me in an old folks home. LOL
I couldn't give a younger version of myself any advice because I wouldn't have listened. I guess I would go to those who were hurting or neglectful at the time and set them straight. Also I would by my younger self some nice clothes, take me to Europe, show me there was more to life. Allot more.
OH MY GOD! I HAVE A LIST
-before college, take a course in something..like medical billing so that you can have a stable job during college.
-Pay attention to math...A LOT MORE.
-think optimistic
-Dont get your hopes up for anyone AND NEVER SHOW ANY GUY THAT YOU WANT THEM-well this I always knew I just didnt follow it bc we get lost that we forget about ourselves at time
Because of these things and even more, I advise my brother and sister as much as I could on things...there are things that people told me.
Be strong and dont be afraid myself soon to be :P
if i can i'll make sure the little guy face his fear before going back hehe.
edit: actually nevermind i think i learned alot from what had happen. Lets me suffer
Give me life advice?
I'm 18 pretty much just starting out in the real world so if you can give me advice to get me through this thing we like to call life then please do :) I've learnt alot but still loads left to learn.Give me life advice?
Believe in yourself no matter what.Give me life advice?
';Live like you were dying.'; I got it from some country song I heard. The words resonate with me alot. Sometimes, it is hard to live with risks but I do it sometimes just so I don't regret anything. Like I told this guy that I liked him and it didnt work out but at least I know I tried. Also, live with no regrets too.
work hard and be determined,think about the potential merits whenever you feel like giving up,and whenever something seems difficult,remember that 'you'll be perfect at it ,once you're used to it'
Now you're nearly in the open, do not lose focus on your dreams. Now its making that dream job become reality.
Study hard, make many friends, have fun, and think of the fabulous future you deserve. It will come true if you put your effort into your work.
The best way to start is to have a relationship with God.
Believe in yourself no matter what.Give me life advice?
';Live like you were dying.'; I got it from some country song I heard. The words resonate with me alot. Sometimes, it is hard to live with risks but I do it sometimes just so I don't regret anything. Like I told this guy that I liked him and it didnt work out but at least I know I tried. Also, live with no regrets too.
work hard and be determined,think about the potential merits whenever you feel like giving up,and whenever something seems difficult,remember that 'you'll be perfect at it ,once you're used to it'
Now you're nearly in the open, do not lose focus on your dreams. Now its making that dream job become reality.
Study hard, make many friends, have fun, and think of the fabulous future you deserve. It will come true if you put your effort into your work.
The best way to start is to have a relationship with God.
Need love life advice just ask?
I helped 30 people just yesterdayNeed love life advice just ask?
ok so how do u love someone and how do u no there is a such thingNeed love life advice just ask?
ok and whats the advice ur looking for ?
cool
How do you hold on to your man or woman and never let go?
your awesome possum!
How can one person fall in love more than once or twice? Isn't love supposed to be hard to find? Can a person fall in love with someone other than the person they are married to?
oh yah can i be the 31st person..
can you help me.. i need help... my email is xxway2coolxx@yahoo.com email me there please!!!!!how to apply
ok so how do u love someone and how do u no there is a such thingNeed love life advice just ask?
ok and whats the advice ur looking for ?
cool
How do you hold on to your man or woman and never let go?
your awesome possum!
How can one person fall in love more than once or twice? Isn't love supposed to be hard to find? Can a person fall in love with someone other than the person they are married to?
oh yah can i be the 31st person..
can you help me.. i need help... my email is xxway2coolxx@yahoo.com email me there please!!!!!
I need life advice?
I am 19 years old, i went to a vocational high school and now i work full time in my trade of boilers. All my friends went to a normal high school and they all go to college now. I hang out with them when they are home and go visit them at school, but im afraid that when they graduate there all going to go there seperate ways and im never going to see them again. I have regular friends but these guys im talking about are my true best friends since ive been in elemetary school. So any advice on how to get over my curent ';depresion'; i guese would be appreciated.I need life advice?
You feel this way now because of ur age, when young guys want to hangout together. Yes, u probably will go ur separate ways, but there will come a day when u meet someone and marry and have a family, ur priorities will change, ur wife and family will be ur main concern. It`s life and life is not stagnant, it moves on and so must u. But for now, enjoy ur friends any way u can, phone, e-mails, short weekend visits, later there will be reunions, graduations, weddings,etc. they`re not lost forever and who knows, some may return to ur area to stay. Cheer up, this is a temporary thing, u don`t know what is ahead for u or ur friends.I need life advice?
My son is 38 yr old. He went to trade school instead of college. His high school buddies are now a physicist at Cal Tech, a loop lawyer in Chicago, a telephone repair man in Milwaukee, and a factory worker in western Wisc. They all get together whenever one is in town. Their main problem is not education differences, or jobs, but geography. They have been in each others' weddings, visited each other. They are still great buddies, but can't go out every Fri nite
Of course you are getting older and you have to venture out into the world. Your friends are always going to be your friends and you have to try to stay in contact. But dont worry they will be there but you still gotta live life and take those next steps.
Awwwe. Well, people do grow up and go their seperate ways. Just do your best to get their phone #'s and stay in touch.
thats the way it is..you will might move forward before them?. if not just try to keep in contact as best you can. theres nothing wrong with growing.
In these days of computers, you can speak with each other daily! Use instant messaging, email- get a digital camera, you can share pictures daily!Know that the whole world changes continually...we all miss our old friends, our old times.
Just realize that what is meant to be is going to be and it ain't nothing you can do about it.
I just moved from Texas to Ohio and it sucked bc most of my friends were true friends. I kept in touch with most of them but the nyou have the jackasses that dont want to keep in touch. but yeah it sucks when people dont wanna keep in touch. Just try to keep an email and give it to them and you dont have to write every day just once or twice a week just to fill them in.
You feel this way now because of ur age, when young guys want to hangout together. Yes, u probably will go ur separate ways, but there will come a day when u meet someone and marry and have a family, ur priorities will change, ur wife and family will be ur main concern. It`s life and life is not stagnant, it moves on and so must u. But for now, enjoy ur friends any way u can, phone, e-mails, short weekend visits, later there will be reunions, graduations, weddings,etc. they`re not lost forever and who knows, some may return to ur area to stay. Cheer up, this is a temporary thing, u don`t know what is ahead for u or ur friends.I need life advice?
My son is 38 yr old. He went to trade school instead of college. His high school buddies are now a physicist at Cal Tech, a loop lawyer in Chicago, a telephone repair man in Milwaukee, and a factory worker in western Wisc. They all get together whenever one is in town. Their main problem is not education differences, or jobs, but geography. They have been in each others' weddings, visited each other. They are still great buddies, but can't go out every Fri nite
Of course you are getting older and you have to venture out into the world. Your friends are always going to be your friends and you have to try to stay in contact. But dont worry they will be there but you still gotta live life and take those next steps.
Awwwe. Well, people do grow up and go their seperate ways. Just do your best to get their phone #'s and stay in touch.
thats the way it is..you will might move forward before them?. if not just try to keep in contact as best you can. theres nothing wrong with growing.
In these days of computers, you can speak with each other daily! Use instant messaging, email- get a digital camera, you can share pictures daily!Know that the whole world changes continually...we all miss our old friends, our old times.
Just realize that what is meant to be is going to be and it ain't nothing you can do about it.
I just moved from Texas to Ohio and it sucked bc most of my friends were true friends. I kept in touch with most of them but the nyou have the jackasses that dont want to keep in touch. but yeah it sucks when people dont wanna keep in touch. Just try to keep an email and give it to them and you dont have to write every day just once or twice a week just to fill them in.
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I have a 2 inch penis,& it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
Learn how to use your tongue and fingers. They will love you. lol :-)
Good life advice???????????
I just thought I would ask an open question that could make for some great discussionGood life advice???????????
Be a witness. Be an observer. Watch how life is moving. Do not exert or worry too much.Good life advice???????????
be the better person, and drop things, dont get into fights, and worry about yourself
and go into publix and yell jesus died for our sins as loud as you can
and then feel embaressed about it, and then upload the video of you in publix disturbing the peice onto youtube
then see a movie, then when movie is over go behind movie theature, there is always a button that says main power shut off, break glass, and press it, then watch everyone get pissed off because the entire movie theature turned off and they cant see anything, and then the movie theature has to give thousands of people refunds, laugh to yourself, and then go upload that video on youtube,
then go skateboard in your underwear through the florida mall, and out run the fat rent a cops, adn then upload that video on to youtube
then make a montage vid of your python and other reptiles killing fury animals, and send it to peta
then take your python to the community pool, and put it on the pool while 30 people are screaming their heads off and running away
upload that vid onto youtube
then go onto yahoo answers and bs 20 questions a day, then go to bed.
Unless it's your job, you have no right to judge 'cause you have no idea where someone comes from.
Pick your battles...and most things aren't battles.
Let it go. Anger takes too much energy and allows another person to control long after they've forgotten what happened.
Just remember, 100 years from now, all new people!
Be the change you want to see...
...and my favourite:
Better a bleeding heart than none at all.
be self confident,be happy,take everythig easy,try hard,laugh much,spend time with friends,cry when you feel bad,love people,forgive them,do`t make enemies,do excercise,write annoying matters and try to disappear them:)
Pick your battles carefully
Pay attention to every cheesy saying, they really do help.
Seek god now before its too late.
Never take anyone for granted.There is no guarantee that they will still be here tomorrow.
Never burn your bridges-- you never know when you'll have to cross that river again.
dont take it too seriously, cause you'll just end up dead like everyone else
Live in the moment
Be a witness. Be an observer. Watch how life is moving. Do not exert or worry too much.Good life advice???????????
be the better person, and drop things, dont get into fights, and worry about yourself
and go into publix and yell jesus died for our sins as loud as you can
and then feel embaressed about it, and then upload the video of you in publix disturbing the peice onto youtube
then see a movie, then when movie is over go behind movie theature, there is always a button that says main power shut off, break glass, and press it, then watch everyone get pissed off because the entire movie theature turned off and they cant see anything, and then the movie theature has to give thousands of people refunds, laugh to yourself, and then go upload that video on youtube,
then go skateboard in your underwear through the florida mall, and out run the fat rent a cops, adn then upload that video on to youtube
then make a montage vid of your python and other reptiles killing fury animals, and send it to peta
then take your python to the community pool, and put it on the pool while 30 people are screaming their heads off and running away
upload that vid onto youtube
then go onto yahoo answers and bs 20 questions a day, then go to bed.
Unless it's your job, you have no right to judge 'cause you have no idea where someone comes from.
Pick your battles...and most things aren't battles.
Let it go. Anger takes too much energy and allows another person to control long after they've forgotten what happened.
Just remember, 100 years from now, all new people!
Be the change you want to see...
...and my favourite:
Better a bleeding heart than none at all.
be self confident,be happy,take everythig easy,try hard,laugh much,spend time with friends,cry when you feel bad,love people,forgive them,do`t make enemies,do excercise,write annoying matters and try to disappear them:)
Pick your battles carefully
Pay attention to every cheesy saying, they really do help.
Seek god now before its too late.
Never take anyone for granted.There is no guarantee that they will still be here tomorrow.
Never burn your bridges-- you never know when you'll have to cross that river again.
dont take it too seriously, cause you'll just end up dead like everyone else
Live in the moment
I have a 2 inch penis,& it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
Everyone else seems to be taking the p*ss, which I feel really sorry for you for! Maybe this wasn't the best place to put this question. People on Y!A tend to be just as judging and mocking as the people in your everyday life, so they'll still laugh at you. If it makes you feel any better, most guys exaggerate anyway.. The average is like 4 or 5 inches.
I don't think you're doomed. Girls are less obsessed about that than you'd think. They just won't say that to your face or in front of other people in case people think they're weird. I know, it's a vanity obsessed world. As long as you're healthy, I'm sure you're fine.
*hugs*I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
After ejaculation it elongates... I think you mean before because after it will go back to soft status. Most girls don't appreciate a small one. i know i have had one all my life. i'm in my 40's and it was very embarrassing. mine doesn't even reach 2.5 inches fully. You have to learn how to satisfy women using other methods because we can't with what we have. i decided to trans-gender to compensate. i make a better female than male anyway.I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
Why are you asking this here? Gay people don't have the solutions to your penis problems.
(Sigh)
Lindsay Lohan once said this while she was considering a reality TV show, ';As sick as it sounds, a reality show might help, actually. At least then people could get the truth.';
Perhaps you can take Ms. Lohan's advice and do a reality TV show about you and your infantile penis.
That way, you would be famous and have no shortage of female attention.
Lindsay Bless You, Go in Peace.
2 inches is enough for sex because the vagina isn't far. My guess is that it would be pretty thick and most woman find thick better than long because it gives them more pleasure. Stop worrying about yourself, no one pays attention to it :]
Jeeez any superficial douche will tell you to get surgery or make some stupid ridicule. You can ejaculate, and I'm assuming you can have sex jag off etc.. so there is nothing wrong with you physically or physiologically.
if ur young? it will grow
if ur older and its short n thick den ur ok but other than that i guess it wont be bad if u know how to use it rit! cuz some guys do!
ACK!!! TMI TMI TMI!!!!!!
are you serious?!
--BigBooty
my friends was 2 in last year now it is 3 3/4 in and thick itll grow trust me!
please surgery!
wow are you serious? it can't be that small. how old are you?
Well how old are you?
Two?
my advice is...learn how to use ur tounge really well....if u know what i mean.....
I don't think you're doomed. Girls are less obsessed about that than you'd think. They just won't say that to your face or in front of other people in case people think they're weird. I know, it's a vanity obsessed world. As long as you're healthy, I'm sure you're fine.
*hugs*I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
After ejaculation it elongates... I think you mean before because after it will go back to soft status. Most girls don't appreciate a small one. i know i have had one all my life. i'm in my 40's and it was very embarrassing. mine doesn't even reach 2.5 inches fully. You have to learn how to satisfy women using other methods because we can't with what we have. i decided to trans-gender to compensate. i make a better female than male anyway.I have a 2 inch penis,%26amp; it only elongates half an inch after ejaculation.Girls,am i doomed for life?Any advice?
Why are you asking this here? Gay people don't have the solutions to your penis problems.
(Sigh)
Lindsay Lohan once said this while she was considering a reality TV show, ';As sick as it sounds, a reality show might help, actually. At least then people could get the truth.';
Perhaps you can take Ms. Lohan's advice and do a reality TV show about you and your infantile penis.
That way, you would be famous and have no shortage of female attention.
Lindsay Bless You, Go in Peace.
2 inches is enough for sex because the vagina isn't far. My guess is that it would be pretty thick and most woman find thick better than long because it gives them more pleasure. Stop worrying about yourself, no one pays attention to it :]
Jeeez any superficial douche will tell you to get surgery or make some stupid ridicule. You can ejaculate, and I'm assuming you can have sex jag off etc.. so there is nothing wrong with you physically or physiologically.
if ur young? it will grow
if ur older and its short n thick den ur ok but other than that i guess it wont be bad if u know how to use it rit! cuz some guys do!
ACK!!! TMI TMI TMI!!!!!!
are you serious?!
--BigBooty
my friends was 2 in last year now it is 3 3/4 in and thick itll grow trust me!
please surgery!
wow are you serious? it can't be that small. how old are you?
Well how old are you?
Two?
my advice is...learn how to use ur tounge really well....if u know what i mean.....
In need of love life advice?
im a 16 year old gay boy.
im tired of being single and lonely.
what can i do?
there are a few gay boys at my school but i dont want to date any of them.
and i dont want to start looking over the internet because ill most likely find a 46 year old pedophile or something.
im really shy and i probable will not go to any youth groups or anything.
advice is much neededIn need of love life advice?
ok well good ? i am soooo with you on this one well at 16 that is a really young age but once you think abou you can't such love and there is a lot of gay guys out there but not all of them can amit it andeverything and maybe you should join a sport or a club or something and start to meet some guys and everything or go in a gay chat room and talk to some guys in there and ask where you can find some guys now if you are bi then i would so no luck w/ the guys go w/ a girlhow to apply
im tired of being single and lonely.
what can i do?
there are a few gay boys at my school but i dont want to date any of them.
and i dont want to start looking over the internet because ill most likely find a 46 year old pedophile or something.
im really shy and i probable will not go to any youth groups or anything.
advice is much neededIn need of love life advice?
ok well good ? i am soooo with you on this one well at 16 that is a really young age but once you think abou you can't such love and there is a lot of gay guys out there but not all of them can amit it andeverything and maybe you should join a sport or a club or something and start to meet some guys and everything or go in a gay chat room and talk to some guys in there and ask where you can find some guys now if you are bi then i would so no luck w/ the guys go w/ a girl
I want to help teens deal with their problems. i love giving advice about the future and life. what should i?
major in at college? where would i work? what's my specific job title? i would want to work in an office building i think.I want to help teens deal with their problems. i love giving advice about the future and life. what should i?
A guidance councilor is an obvious choice.
But if you would like to help troubled teens, I would say look into the requirements for a probation officer and / or a counciling position specializing in youths.
Good LuckI want to help teens deal with their problems. i love giving advice about the future and life. what should i?
Guidance Counselor. Guidance counseling requirements vary from state to state. You generally need education courses and counseling courses, plus psychology courses certainly wouldn't hurt. Counseling isn't usually a major, but a concentration of the Dducation Department. Usually a masters degree is required at some point, as well as state certification.
Sounds to me like you should be a guidance counselor. I would think a psychology major and a minor in education would be perfect.
A guidance councilor is an obvious choice.
But if you would like to help troubled teens, I would say look into the requirements for a probation officer and / or a counciling position specializing in youths.
Good LuckI want to help teens deal with their problems. i love giving advice about the future and life. what should i?
Guidance Counselor. Guidance counseling requirements vary from state to state. You generally need education courses and counseling courses, plus psychology courses certainly wouldn't hurt. Counseling isn't usually a major, but a concentration of the Dducation Department. Usually a masters degree is required at some point, as well as state certification.
Sounds to me like you should be a guidance counselor. I would think a psychology major and a minor in education would be perfect.
Turning 18 Tomorrow! Any life advice?
General of specific, spread the wisdom!Turning 18 Tomorrow! Any life advice?
Happy 18th Birthday for tomorrow, for some life advice, go apply and get your passport, save up some cash and go do some global traveling.
Once you do you wont want to stop until you see everything, also when your 18 yo outside the USA. You can legally drink, go to bars and dance venues, casinos and night clubs, etc the world is your oyster.
Have a great day tomorrow !!Turning 18 Tomorrow! Any life advice?
Happy Birthday..Hope you have a great day! If you have the opportunity you should definitely go to college. Education may not seem important to you now but without it life will be much harder financially. Also always have respect for yourself and others. Try to make a positive difference in the world. You won't be sorry! I wish you the very best and hope that your 18th birthday will mark the beginning of many wonderful years for you.
Happy birthday!
Enjoy being 18! It's a fun year, because it's when you start becoming independent. Go to college, buy yourself a lottery ticket, AND UTILIZE YOUR VOTING RIGHTS!
(Don't get any stupid peircings or tatoos...they are trashy and will bite you in the butt later on in life)
But most importantly, have fun! Don't forget that you are still young.
Figure out what you want to do with your life (or at least get an idea), whether it's go to college or just get a job. If you go to college don't go overboard on the parties. Remember that you can now officially be charged as an adult.
Go to college, travel, learn a new language, stick to a major (in college) and go all the way through with it, do as much outside activity as possible, and always remember to have fun.
Yes dont drink too much, drive safely, be mature , be responsible of your acts, study well and always think about your future. Best of luck in your life. Happy birthday
stay away from credit cards
dont get busted doing anything illegal
dont have kids
dont buy a house- unless you have at least 20% down and then DONT REFINANCE!!!!!! NO SECOND MORTGAGES
Never stop learning, and don't take yourself too seriously.
Happy Birthday! Finish college, don't incur debt and drink lots of water.
Enjoy the moment.
The next 18 will be a flash.
Do it gently.
dont do a crime cause jail sucks
eat drink and be merry
Happy 18th Birthday for tomorrow, for some life advice, go apply and get your passport, save up some cash and go do some global traveling.
Once you do you wont want to stop until you see everything, also when your 18 yo outside the USA. You can legally drink, go to bars and dance venues, casinos and night clubs, etc the world is your oyster.
Have a great day tomorrow !!Turning 18 Tomorrow! Any life advice?
Happy Birthday..Hope you have a great day! If you have the opportunity you should definitely go to college. Education may not seem important to you now but without it life will be much harder financially. Also always have respect for yourself and others. Try to make a positive difference in the world. You won't be sorry! I wish you the very best and hope that your 18th birthday will mark the beginning of many wonderful years for you.
Happy birthday!
Enjoy being 18! It's a fun year, because it's when you start becoming independent. Go to college, buy yourself a lottery ticket, AND UTILIZE YOUR VOTING RIGHTS!
(Don't get any stupid peircings or tatoos...they are trashy and will bite you in the butt later on in life)
But most importantly, have fun! Don't forget that you are still young.
Figure out what you want to do with your life (or at least get an idea), whether it's go to college or just get a job. If you go to college don't go overboard on the parties. Remember that you can now officially be charged as an adult.
Go to college, travel, learn a new language, stick to a major (in college) and go all the way through with it, do as much outside activity as possible, and always remember to have fun.
Yes dont drink too much, drive safely, be mature , be responsible of your acts, study well and always think about your future. Best of luck in your life. Happy birthday
stay away from credit cards
dont get busted doing anything illegal
dont have kids
dont buy a house- unless you have at least 20% down and then DONT REFINANCE!!!!!! NO SECOND MORTGAGES
Never stop learning, and don't take yourself too seriously.
Happy Birthday! Finish college, don't incur debt and drink lots of water.
Enjoy the moment.
The next 18 will be a flash.
Do it gently.
dont do a crime cause jail sucks
eat drink and be merry
I need some serious life advice?
Hello im 19 and i need some advice. My only friend moved away and i just graduated highschool, I have no friends, no family (I went threw highschool on my own living on my own) and I have a mild case of A.D.D which makes me feel that it prevents me from making friends because I feel I will not fit in somehow. What should I do, I want to move far away because there is nothign left for me here, my lease is up at the end of septemberI need some serious life advice?
go to college, or travel... find yourself!good luckI need some serious life advice?
ight dude listen up my brother has add too and let me tell you its not the disorder that makes you think you don't fit in. its just everybody's mind that does it. anyway to make new friends try and get out of the house go to places where you like to be if you like hiking go hiking if you like swimming go swimming just do the things that make you enjoy life and eventually someone may come around that has the same interest. it may not sound like it works but it does. if you just be yourself and do the things you love the best you'll most likely find some people who you can be friends with and have some great times with. you just have to give it some time. not every thing happens at one time in one place. don't give up though. that will never work out in the end.
Hi Josh,
I am so sorry. People shouldn't treat you with dis-respect because you have A.D.D.
Why don't you move where your ';only'; friend moved?
Since you want to move far away, I think that it is a good idea! I hope everything goes well!
Good Luck!
You can move but it's not going to change anything...problems follow :( I know it seems like you don't fit in but it's not because you have ADD i think almost EVERYONE feels that way...I guess we all need to find a group of people who accept us for who we are and love us for who we are too...not everyone is going to like us thats just the way it is... Good Luck!
with or without ADD, you only have a high school diploma and may need more education. Then again maybe not. You need to answer questions like that in order to kind of come to some conclusions as to what you want out of your life. From there you can decide where to go and what to do when you get there.
I know ADD is a drag in many repsects but also know it need not hinder you from succeeding in setting and reaching lots of goals. One of my closest friends has it as well and he is doing fine. Sure he could do more or better if he weren't so easily distracted but he's made amazing progress in life despite it. So, think things through and set forth to achieve good things. You are able to...
okay just go ahead do dat i mean no1 is holding ur back!!! HELLOOOOOOO!!! u said dat u r 19 so go ahead move away!!
may be you can through a block party and make new friends or through a party and make friends there.
Good Luck! :)
It sounds like you haven't quite figured out who you are or what you want to do with your life. Have you considered college? It can give you good direction with your life, not to mention a solid future and a guarantee of making friends. If you think you can't afford it, take out a loan using FAFSA. Most of the time the government will grant you money.
If college isn't what you want, is there a job you want in particular? Do you have a solid one already? Maybe try joining a community sports team or becoming a part of an organization.
A.D.D. won't prevent you from making friends unless you allow it to.
Good luck.
Go man. Go somewhere you think would be really cool. Youre at a good time in your life where you dont have things tying you down. And when you get to a new town no one will think its odd you dont have friends if you are new to town. And dont feel weird. Ive known people so weird i know youre not as weird of them and they had friends.
go to college, or travel... find yourself!good luckI need some serious life advice?
ight dude listen up my brother has add too and let me tell you its not the disorder that makes you think you don't fit in. its just everybody's mind that does it. anyway to make new friends try and get out of the house go to places where you like to be if you like hiking go hiking if you like swimming go swimming just do the things that make you enjoy life and eventually someone may come around that has the same interest. it may not sound like it works but it does. if you just be yourself and do the things you love the best you'll most likely find some people who you can be friends with and have some great times with. you just have to give it some time. not every thing happens at one time in one place. don't give up though. that will never work out in the end.
Hi Josh,
I am so sorry. People shouldn't treat you with dis-respect because you have A.D.D.
Why don't you move where your ';only'; friend moved?
Since you want to move far away, I think that it is a good idea! I hope everything goes well!
Good Luck!
You can move but it's not going to change anything...problems follow :( I know it seems like you don't fit in but it's not because you have ADD i think almost EVERYONE feels that way...I guess we all need to find a group of people who accept us for who we are and love us for who we are too...not everyone is going to like us thats just the way it is... Good Luck!
with or without ADD, you only have a high school diploma and may need more education. Then again maybe not. You need to answer questions like that in order to kind of come to some conclusions as to what you want out of your life. From there you can decide where to go and what to do when you get there.
I know ADD is a drag in many repsects but also know it need not hinder you from succeeding in setting and reaching lots of goals. One of my closest friends has it as well and he is doing fine. Sure he could do more or better if he weren't so easily distracted but he's made amazing progress in life despite it. So, think things through and set forth to achieve good things. You are able to...
okay just go ahead do dat i mean no1 is holding ur back!!! HELLOOOOOOO!!! u said dat u r 19 so go ahead move away!!
may be you can through a block party and make new friends or through a party and make friends there.
Good Luck! :)
It sounds like you haven't quite figured out who you are or what you want to do with your life. Have you considered college? It can give you good direction with your life, not to mention a solid future and a guarantee of making friends. If you think you can't afford it, take out a loan using FAFSA. Most of the time the government will grant you money.
If college isn't what you want, is there a job you want in particular? Do you have a solid one already? Maybe try joining a community sports team or becoming a part of an organization.
A.D.D. won't prevent you from making friends unless you allow it to.
Good luck.
Go man. Go somewhere you think would be really cool. Youre at a good time in your life where you dont have things tying you down. And when you get to a new town no one will think its odd you dont have friends if you are new to town. And dont feel weird. Ive known people so weird i know youre not as weird of them and they had friends.
Hey, please help, life advice...........?
I'm 22 and I've just finished uni and I have returned home and feel like I don't have any friends. I have a few but only 1 or 2 ever call me up and ask me if I wanna go out. I want a girlfriend and feel like I am a decent, charming and probably average looking. Are there any good places where I can meet some good people and get a girl and some good friends? I love sports like tennis and live in England. cheersHey, please help, life advice...........?
Stay away from night clubs and their ilk, they are legalized whore houses! The best place to meet great people in my experience is either at work or in a like minded interest group: for instance do you like politics/conservation/wildlife or whatever? These groups are often seriously women heavy! Not only that it is a no pressure way to just talk to women and get to know them as friends before getting in to anything deeper. Our local branch of the Labour party once has 3 couples get together in just 6 months, out of a membership of less than 50 that is good going. Good luck!
Stay away from night clubs and their ilk, they are legalized whore houses! The best place to meet great people in my experience is either at work or in a like minded interest group: for instance do you like politics/conservation/wildlife or whatever? These groups are often seriously women heavy! Not only that it is a no pressure way to just talk to women and get to know them as friends before getting in to anything deeper. Our local branch of the Labour party once has 3 couples get together in just 6 months, out of a membership of less than 50 that is good going. Good luck!
Anyone have any life advice?
Im a teen right now. Anyone have any random life advice? Im boreddAnyone have any life advice?
start with getting a real lifeAnyone have any life advice?
If you think that you are bored now, wait until you get trapped with a wife, raising children and stuck on a job that you hate to support your family until you die. Enjoy the boredom of youth because the responsibilites of adulthood is no picnic.
start with getting a real lifeAnyone have any life advice?
If you think that you are bored now, wait until you get trapped with a wife, raising children and stuck on a job that you hate to support your family until you die. Enjoy the boredom of youth because the responsibilites of adulthood is no picnic.
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I am 28 Married Female who has been involved in an affair for the last year with an older man (54) who is in a committed relationship. Last night after the 2 of us had relations it hit me that I am a whore. I realize that I need to change my life big time.
I have been thinking about packing it all up and moving 1000 miles away so I could start over and get my life back. I just think that everyone around me would be better off without me, and I would be better off in an area where people don't know my history where I can start over.
Part of my awaking was do to the fact that some people from Temple found out about my relationship with my ';boyfriend'; I acknowledged it while he denied knowing me in a sexual way. My friends from Temple all think I am a crazy stalker, and so does everyone else. The Rabbi is of no help and I am not at all close with my family. Please advise.Need relationship and life advice?
running away is always the easiest answer. to stand and face your consequences makes you a stronger, better person. everyone screws up, but it takes a lot of courage to face the consequences. what about your husband? does he know? if everyone else knows, it's better for him to hear it from you. if he'll never find out, don't tell them.Need relationship and life advice?
28 vs 54? Father figure?
Hey, sex isnt everything.... First find what you want out of life then act on it.. You must be happy with yourself otherwise all is just ';getting by';
accept jesus to repent from your sins and be saved. that is the only way all of us can start over. i'd recommend finding a christain church as well to fellowship with other people.
Whether you leave or not a new scene will not change anything until you change...You can move away and end up making the same mistake over and over again and keep running. By you running won't change anything. If you work through this mess that has been created you will come out a better person...But if you run you're still going to have to deal with....Guess who????........';YOU';........ It's going to take time and it's going to be very hard, but don't run b/c it will delay the healing process.....
You don't need to move away, if I were you I would find a new temple and get away from the guy you are cheating with. Sure you screwed up, but it's not like you killed someone. You cheated, and now you realize you made a mistake and it is time to quit making mistakes and learn from it. Walk away from the guy and start trying to make things right with your husband. Screw what everyone else thinks, sooner or later something else will come along and your situation will be put on the back burner and forgotten about. Everyone makes mistakes, some more public than others, but you need to face up to what you have done with your head held high and a better understanding of where you want to be in life. I myself have screwed up in the past, in a public way, and you know what - life goes on. I quit making mistakes, and sure it was hard for a while, but you just have to take it one day at a time. Next time some nosey person wants to talk with you about the situation, tell them bluntly it is none of their business (I don't care if they are a priest or someone you know - keep your personal life personal from this point on!!!!!!). Yes you messed up, but your life can be salvaged and there is no reason to run from your problems. Running from them will just make it harder for you in the long run - trust me!!!!
You have taken a step in the right direction by admitting your affair and committing to end it. Have you confessed to your husband? If not you need to do so in order to make yourself whole. Explain to him what led you to have the affair and if he is willing to forgive you and you are sure that you can be faithful to him then try to start over with him. Running 1000 miles away does not solve the problem. The only way to make it go away is deal with it head on. It does not matter what others think of you....you have to make right on your decietfullness and make peace with yourself...good luck.
Do not think of yourself in this way, it just sounds as if you were searching for love and affection from another as you were not receiving what you needed from your husband. Just because a group of people have all ganged up and concluded it is you and you alone who is at fault does not make them right. This man is nearly twice your age and should know better, but he has gone hiding amongst his social group blaming you for everything. Who cares what these people think, don't waste another second thinking about what they're thinking. It definitely sounds as if a fresh start would be good for you, any chance of you fixing the damage with your husband? Either way, you're going to have to pick yourself up, dust yourself down and try to improve life for yourself. This may mean leaving the temple/area, so what, it hasn't brought you happiness so far has it? Best of luck sweetie, and to hell with those back stabbers and cowards, prove them all wrong, go make something for yourself x.
leaving and starting over sounds like a good idea. in a few years, with some distance and perspective, family and friends may come around and see your side of what's happened.
best of luck to you, as a life-altering change of this sort is never easy.
you deserve better than the life you've let yourself live. It's time for you to break that cycle
I don't think that running is an answer, I think you should call off the affair. Then think to yourself that if that were you and she was the mistress doing that too you. I think you should start over and think positive you know you made a mistake and that is a start. Now just try to live life for yourself.
your 28.try straighting out your life,not running from it..there is not one person who has en;t made a mistake.find happiness.
Make that move! You created the situation for yourself, and now it's up to you to clean it up. Good luck!
You're beating yourself up pretty badly. You may not need to SO MUCH, in order to make a life changing decision.
Moving away may be an option but it won't change what you did. You still have to deal with that whether you're in the USA or CHINA.
People will judge you but their judements are not as important as your own judgements of yourself. Accepting yourself for who you are will be your greatest gift. There's always a reason for infedelity find out what yours is. Your actions doesn't mean that's who you are, it could be response from something else.
I'm a cheater too, but I've come to terms with that and I realized I'm not a cheater. I was just in an unfortunate situation where my judgements weren't very good. in other wordds I made a mistake, but I learned from it and am doing far better because of it.
Just find out what it is is, it will give you your power back.
Firstly, age is not an issue, and you could easily date men of any age. The fact that he is already involved in a relationship is the problem, because he is cheating on his significant other and you risk breaking up the relationship for your own indulgence. Moving away is not the solution; getting your life on track is. You need to stop this relationship, take a look at your life from a different prespective, and move on. There are other relationships to be had, but don't escape your problems... face them. Every problem has a solution; finding it is always the task and many times it is easier said than done. Godd luck to you sweetie.
Cheating on your husband doesn't make you a whore -- it makes you an adulteress. I know; it's not much of a distinction in the eyes of most people, but remember that David committed adultery with Bathsheba. God forgave David, so God will forgive you if you repent as well.
Running away isn't going to solve anything. Your problems will follow you whether you want them to or not. You'll still feel guilty and still feel like a whore if you leave, and you can't be 100% sure that these ';new friends'; you would meet 1,000 miles away wouldn't find out the truth about you.
First off, I would advise you to cut all ties with your older boyfriend. Next, you need to figure out why you got involved with him in the first place (READ: You need to figure out what's wrong with your marriage). It's time for you to do some soul-searching here, and if you need help figuring out what the heck is going on or how you ended up in this mess you find yourself in, talk to a therapist or a counselor or a psychiatrist. This is going to be rough because you'll have to take responsibility for your actions and accept any consequences that come as a result, but if you face your problems head-on you'll be stronger and a better person when you get through this.
You can't run forever -- your past will always catch up with you one way or another. Even if you could make a new start without anyone knowing about your past you'll probably end up suffering from depression, and there's a very good chance that you'll end up having more affairs (and that would REALLY make you a whore).
Don't run. Be strong. You can't take away anything that happened yesterday or the day before, but you can change who and what you are today for tomorrow and the future. You can do it, and there are people who can help you if you need it. You said yourself you need to make a change -- that's the first step. Now take the next step and get started on making that change.
I wish you the best.
Being the other women is a sad place to be. You are hurting so many others including yourself. Get some self respect and find a new life, You deserve to be happy, rarely does the other women get the man she is having the affair with. If you did end up with him could you ever trust him?how to apply
I have been thinking about packing it all up and moving 1000 miles away so I could start over and get my life back. I just think that everyone around me would be better off without me, and I would be better off in an area where people don't know my history where I can start over.
Part of my awaking was do to the fact that some people from Temple found out about my relationship with my ';boyfriend'; I acknowledged it while he denied knowing me in a sexual way. My friends from Temple all think I am a crazy stalker, and so does everyone else. The Rabbi is of no help and I am not at all close with my family. Please advise.Need relationship and life advice?
running away is always the easiest answer. to stand and face your consequences makes you a stronger, better person. everyone screws up, but it takes a lot of courage to face the consequences. what about your husband? does he know? if everyone else knows, it's better for him to hear it from you. if he'll never find out, don't tell them.Need relationship and life advice?
28 vs 54? Father figure?
Hey, sex isnt everything.... First find what you want out of life then act on it.. You must be happy with yourself otherwise all is just ';getting by';
accept jesus to repent from your sins and be saved. that is the only way all of us can start over. i'd recommend finding a christain church as well to fellowship with other people.
Whether you leave or not a new scene will not change anything until you change...You can move away and end up making the same mistake over and over again and keep running. By you running won't change anything. If you work through this mess that has been created you will come out a better person...But if you run you're still going to have to deal with....Guess who????........';YOU';........ It's going to take time and it's going to be very hard, but don't run b/c it will delay the healing process.....
You don't need to move away, if I were you I would find a new temple and get away from the guy you are cheating with. Sure you screwed up, but it's not like you killed someone. You cheated, and now you realize you made a mistake and it is time to quit making mistakes and learn from it. Walk away from the guy and start trying to make things right with your husband. Screw what everyone else thinks, sooner or later something else will come along and your situation will be put on the back burner and forgotten about. Everyone makes mistakes, some more public than others, but you need to face up to what you have done with your head held high and a better understanding of where you want to be in life. I myself have screwed up in the past, in a public way, and you know what - life goes on. I quit making mistakes, and sure it was hard for a while, but you just have to take it one day at a time. Next time some nosey person wants to talk with you about the situation, tell them bluntly it is none of their business (I don't care if they are a priest or someone you know - keep your personal life personal from this point on!!!!!!). Yes you messed up, but your life can be salvaged and there is no reason to run from your problems. Running from them will just make it harder for you in the long run - trust me!!!!
You have taken a step in the right direction by admitting your affair and committing to end it. Have you confessed to your husband? If not you need to do so in order to make yourself whole. Explain to him what led you to have the affair and if he is willing to forgive you and you are sure that you can be faithful to him then try to start over with him. Running 1000 miles away does not solve the problem. The only way to make it go away is deal with it head on. It does not matter what others think of you....you have to make right on your decietfullness and make peace with yourself...good luck.
Do not think of yourself in this way, it just sounds as if you were searching for love and affection from another as you were not receiving what you needed from your husband. Just because a group of people have all ganged up and concluded it is you and you alone who is at fault does not make them right. This man is nearly twice your age and should know better, but he has gone hiding amongst his social group blaming you for everything. Who cares what these people think, don't waste another second thinking about what they're thinking. It definitely sounds as if a fresh start would be good for you, any chance of you fixing the damage with your husband? Either way, you're going to have to pick yourself up, dust yourself down and try to improve life for yourself. This may mean leaving the temple/area, so what, it hasn't brought you happiness so far has it? Best of luck sweetie, and to hell with those back stabbers and cowards, prove them all wrong, go make something for yourself x.
leaving and starting over sounds like a good idea. in a few years, with some distance and perspective, family and friends may come around and see your side of what's happened.
best of luck to you, as a life-altering change of this sort is never easy.
you deserve better than the life you've let yourself live. It's time for you to break that cycle
I don't think that running is an answer, I think you should call off the affair. Then think to yourself that if that were you and she was the mistress doing that too you. I think you should start over and think positive you know you made a mistake and that is a start. Now just try to live life for yourself.
your 28.try straighting out your life,not running from it..there is not one person who has en;t made a mistake.find happiness.
Make that move! You created the situation for yourself, and now it's up to you to clean it up. Good luck!
You're beating yourself up pretty badly. You may not need to SO MUCH, in order to make a life changing decision.
Moving away may be an option but it won't change what you did. You still have to deal with that whether you're in the USA or CHINA.
People will judge you but their judements are not as important as your own judgements of yourself. Accepting yourself for who you are will be your greatest gift. There's always a reason for infedelity find out what yours is. Your actions doesn't mean that's who you are, it could be response from something else.
I'm a cheater too, but I've come to terms with that and I realized I'm not a cheater. I was just in an unfortunate situation where my judgements weren't very good. in other wordds I made a mistake, but I learned from it and am doing far better because of it.
Just find out what it is is, it will give you your power back.
Firstly, age is not an issue, and you could easily date men of any age. The fact that he is already involved in a relationship is the problem, because he is cheating on his significant other and you risk breaking up the relationship for your own indulgence. Moving away is not the solution; getting your life on track is. You need to stop this relationship, take a look at your life from a different prespective, and move on. There are other relationships to be had, but don't escape your problems... face them. Every problem has a solution; finding it is always the task and many times it is easier said than done. Godd luck to you sweetie.
Cheating on your husband doesn't make you a whore -- it makes you an adulteress. I know; it's not much of a distinction in the eyes of most people, but remember that David committed adultery with Bathsheba. God forgave David, so God will forgive you if you repent as well.
Running away isn't going to solve anything. Your problems will follow you whether you want them to or not. You'll still feel guilty and still feel like a whore if you leave, and you can't be 100% sure that these ';new friends'; you would meet 1,000 miles away wouldn't find out the truth about you.
First off, I would advise you to cut all ties with your older boyfriend. Next, you need to figure out why you got involved with him in the first place (READ: You need to figure out what's wrong with your marriage). It's time for you to do some soul-searching here, and if you need help figuring out what the heck is going on or how you ended up in this mess you find yourself in, talk to a therapist or a counselor or a psychiatrist. This is going to be rough because you'll have to take responsibility for your actions and accept any consequences that come as a result, but if you face your problems head-on you'll be stronger and a better person when you get through this.
You can't run forever -- your past will always catch up with you one way or another. Even if you could make a new start without anyone knowing about your past you'll probably end up suffering from depression, and there's a very good chance that you'll end up having more affairs (and that would REALLY make you a whore).
Don't run. Be strong. You can't take away anything that happened yesterday or the day before, but you can change who and what you are today for tomorrow and the future. You can do it, and there are people who can help you if you need it. You said yourself you need to make a change -- that's the first step. Now take the next step and get started on making that change.
I wish you the best.
Being the other women is a sad place to be. You are hurting so many others including yourself. Get some self respect and find a new life, You deserve to be happy, rarely does the other women get the man she is having the affair with. If you did end up with him could you ever trust him?
What can I do to cheer myself up? Life problems. Advice?
This is me... slightly wavy dark brown hair, dark brown eyes, Malaysian, African-american, Kokesion(sorry for spelling mistakes,in a rush), Indian, advanced schooling(top of class), 11 yrs. old, tall, slender, and popular. Being popular doesn't get to my head(seriously) and I'm really just like everyone else. But...
My problems, I have a suspected case of Trigeminal Neuralgia(lightning pain in my right face) which I've had for 10 months. Because of that I missed the first two months of school(hospitalized). And was rejected from even my best, best friends just because my right cheek didn't look right and I couldn't play a lot of games. I deserve some sympathy! Once they found out, they even rejected me over the summer! I still have ';TN'; but I'm not at the bottom anymore. I'm still rejected by a lot of people. But now what? I still can't play lots of games or run around at recess(the first month back,I couldn't even go outside). Life stinks. Especially for an ordinary 5th grade girl.What can I do to cheer myself up? Life problems. Advice?
You are way ahead of your peers, but just CAN'T realize it. You are very intelligent... and you have a bright future ahead of you. I challenge you to write a list... Write down your top 5 priorities in life... Now read them out loud and think about it. Ok, so i know ';friends'; is on your list... and I'm assuming it is in the number 1 or 2 slot. With your insight and intelligence, you have to make yourself aware that ';friends'; come and go... Especially at your age... You don't know yourself enough to WISELY choose who your friends are. Please, take it from an old guy with a lot of regrets... Friends are not everything in the world... I know at your age it seems like it... But you need to concentrate on your strengths... The prime of your life is yet to come... Don't worry about school drama, who likes you, or anything meaningless like that. Focus on you priorities... (move ';friends'; to the last slot of your priorities). I see a lot of potential in you... And please remember one thing... The prime of your life is yet to come... and don't let your prime come too early... What I mean by this if you think the prime of your life is winning the ';prom queen'; crown... You are selling yourself short. Most of the prom kings and queens, jocks, etc. that I know just live average lives... working at restaraunts... Why? Because they already lived their prime... Your best years aren't even close... Wait until you get to college... you'll meet plenty of guys that share the same interests as you... So for now... the only bit of advice I can give is to use look at your condition as a blessing.... God works in mysterious ways, and you have to turn it into a positive. Best of Luck to you... And I hope to read your novel/dissertation/thesis/textbook someday!!!!What can I do to cheer myself up? Life problems. Advice?
join some clubs or find a community group of kids that are not from your immediate group Kids -girls can be very clique concious at this age and practice how to shut others out Try to find some other interests that you can pursue and you can find friends by mutual interests. Try to join a support group-ask doctor -to talk about others w similar issues Kids that have never been sick or injured have no concept and even get afraid of others who have been through that It makes them think';Mmmm what if that were me, and I'm the same age-no I dont want to think that's even possible for me!'; So they turn awayf rom you becasue they dont want to face their human- ness and frailty. They think their health is guaranteed and as we know it's NOT. May be join a group that visits or helps kids with other more sever problems like cancer. Like some make blankets or small pillows etc for local hospitals ot even for disaster victims overseas etc If you feel up to giving a report on the disorder you might do that in class and let the others know how this affects people Invite some local doctor or nurses etc and bring some other speakers...Make a challenging quiz at the beginng to show them how much they dont know.
Focus on what you can do and feel sorry for those that do not have compassion for others they are immature as well. Good luck and try to have a good day
hi dear i can understand your problem.if your friends are not with you in your badtimes then they were not truly your friends and they dont deserve your friendship forget them .you can get some true friends from normal girls.some true girls dont look for a good face they only want a good heart in a friend.then have fun with them.the day will come when all your problems will be finished.listen it's said ';life is 10% what you make it and 90% how you take it
I'm very sorry to hear all this. When people come in contact with someone that has an injury, disease or disability their reactions can be quite extreme. One thing you should know is that ';it's them- and not you';. You had no control over getting this illness, so don't feel embarrased about it. It's going to take time to adjust. Eventually this will change and you will have a new problem in the future. Keep your dober up!
I agree with Half BaK, you are smart to realize all of this, so I know you will overcome these feelings of rejection.
Maybe you could reach out to someone else who might be having a difficult time with the same thing or another medical or physical disability.
People are stupid sometimes, and I hate that!
By the way you don't sound like an ';ordinary'; 5th grader. I am amazed at how well you write at your age!! Wow!! You could write a journal or a book and pusblish it to help others in your situation.
Oh, one more thing. There are a lot of ';normal looking'; kids your age that have the same feelling of rejection that you do for other reasons, being poor, not being smart, not being real attractive, etc. With your attitude you could really help them.
My best to you!!!!
At 11 Years old I was so dumb I would've not understood most of what you just typed. As a matter of fact, I still kinda don't understand most of it (25 now).
So you're pretty smart, good job.
don't let your problem interfear with your friends your having a bad time your life seems really bad because you have ';TN'; it's sad that your best freinds have turned thier backs on you ,you need friends the most now. tell your friends exactlly what you are going through and they should hopefully understand. if they don't and you still get left out then go to your principle and tell him/her what's been going on. i'm 13 and i live in britain i don't know what it feels like to have ';TN'; but i bet it really sucks! However i do know what it feels like to have all your friends turn thier back on you you feel like life is over. well, it's not take one day at a time and you'll see that everything will get better.Hope everything works out for you.hope my advice helps.
positive thinking.........
People can be so mean, never wanting to look on the inside of a person. Join some clubs, your so called friend before were not your friend to begin with, sorry I know that hurts. It's not easy growing up because you think no one understands, but it's a lot of people out there that do understand, you are not alone. God made you and Jesus died for you, that alone should shows you how special you are. Don't forget that.
My problems, I have a suspected case of Trigeminal Neuralgia(lightning pain in my right face) which I've had for 10 months. Because of that I missed the first two months of school(hospitalized). And was rejected from even my best, best friends just because my right cheek didn't look right and I couldn't play a lot of games. I deserve some sympathy! Once they found out, they even rejected me over the summer! I still have ';TN'; but I'm not at the bottom anymore. I'm still rejected by a lot of people. But now what? I still can't play lots of games or run around at recess(the first month back,I couldn't even go outside). Life stinks. Especially for an ordinary 5th grade girl.What can I do to cheer myself up? Life problems. Advice?
You are way ahead of your peers, but just CAN'T realize it. You are very intelligent... and you have a bright future ahead of you. I challenge you to write a list... Write down your top 5 priorities in life... Now read them out loud and think about it. Ok, so i know ';friends'; is on your list... and I'm assuming it is in the number 1 or 2 slot. With your insight and intelligence, you have to make yourself aware that ';friends'; come and go... Especially at your age... You don't know yourself enough to WISELY choose who your friends are. Please, take it from an old guy with a lot of regrets... Friends are not everything in the world... I know at your age it seems like it... But you need to concentrate on your strengths... The prime of your life is yet to come... Don't worry about school drama, who likes you, or anything meaningless like that. Focus on you priorities... (move ';friends'; to the last slot of your priorities). I see a lot of potential in you... And please remember one thing... The prime of your life is yet to come... and don't let your prime come too early... What I mean by this if you think the prime of your life is winning the ';prom queen'; crown... You are selling yourself short. Most of the prom kings and queens, jocks, etc. that I know just live average lives... working at restaraunts... Why? Because they already lived their prime... Your best years aren't even close... Wait until you get to college... you'll meet plenty of guys that share the same interests as you... So for now... the only bit of advice I can give is to use look at your condition as a blessing.... God works in mysterious ways, and you have to turn it into a positive. Best of Luck to you... And I hope to read your novel/dissertation/thesis/textbook someday!!!!What can I do to cheer myself up? Life problems. Advice?
join some clubs or find a community group of kids that are not from your immediate group Kids -girls can be very clique concious at this age and practice how to shut others out Try to find some other interests that you can pursue and you can find friends by mutual interests. Try to join a support group-ask doctor -to talk about others w similar issues Kids that have never been sick or injured have no concept and even get afraid of others who have been through that It makes them think';Mmmm what if that were me, and I'm the same age-no I dont want to think that's even possible for me!'; So they turn awayf rom you becasue they dont want to face their human- ness and frailty. They think their health is guaranteed and as we know it's NOT. May be join a group that visits or helps kids with other more sever problems like cancer. Like some make blankets or small pillows etc for local hospitals ot even for disaster victims overseas etc If you feel up to giving a report on the disorder you might do that in class and let the others know how this affects people Invite some local doctor or nurses etc and bring some other speakers...Make a challenging quiz at the beginng to show them how much they dont know.
Focus on what you can do and feel sorry for those that do not have compassion for others they are immature as well. Good luck and try to have a good day
hi dear i can understand your problem.if your friends are not with you in your badtimes then they were not truly your friends and they dont deserve your friendship forget them .you can get some true friends from normal girls.some true girls dont look for a good face they only want a good heart in a friend.then have fun with them.the day will come when all your problems will be finished.listen it's said ';life is 10% what you make it and 90% how you take it
I'm very sorry to hear all this. When people come in contact with someone that has an injury, disease or disability their reactions can be quite extreme. One thing you should know is that ';it's them- and not you';. You had no control over getting this illness, so don't feel embarrased about it. It's going to take time to adjust. Eventually this will change and you will have a new problem in the future. Keep your dober up!
I agree with Half BaK, you are smart to realize all of this, so I know you will overcome these feelings of rejection.
Maybe you could reach out to someone else who might be having a difficult time with the same thing or another medical or physical disability.
People are stupid sometimes, and I hate that!
By the way you don't sound like an ';ordinary'; 5th grader. I am amazed at how well you write at your age!! Wow!! You could write a journal or a book and pusblish it to help others in your situation.
Oh, one more thing. There are a lot of ';normal looking'; kids your age that have the same feelling of rejection that you do for other reasons, being poor, not being smart, not being real attractive, etc. With your attitude you could really help them.
My best to you!!!!
At 11 Years old I was so dumb I would've not understood most of what you just typed. As a matter of fact, I still kinda don't understand most of it (25 now).
So you're pretty smart, good job.
don't let your problem interfear with your friends your having a bad time your life seems really bad because you have ';TN'; it's sad that your best freinds have turned thier backs on you ,you need friends the most now. tell your friends exactlly what you are going through and they should hopefully understand. if they don't and you still get left out then go to your principle and tell him/her what's been going on. i'm 13 and i live in britain i don't know what it feels like to have ';TN'; but i bet it really sucks! However i do know what it feels like to have all your friends turn thier back on you you feel like life is over. well, it's not take one day at a time and you'll see that everything will get better.Hope everything works out for you.hope my advice helps.
positive thinking.........
People can be so mean, never wanting to look on the inside of a person. Join some clubs, your so called friend before were not your friend to begin with, sorry I know that hurts. It's not easy growing up because you think no one understands, but it's a lot of people out there that do understand, you are not alone. God made you and Jesus died for you, that alone should shows you how special you are. Don't forget that.
Life/Career change- need advice, please. Should I venture into a small business or go back to school for PT?
I am 43 yrs. old. I have a BA in Linguistics and a Masters in Special Education. I have worked in the school system for 10 yrs. in the field of Special Ed. and am completely burnt out...too much paperwork and politics. I need to earn a living, but can not see myself teaching long term. I had thought of doing some type of small business (health products, maybe) but don't know where to start. Also have considered returning to college to get a degree in physical therapy or the like. But, I do not really want to spend the time and money getting another degree. I am a natural writer ...but not sure if that can sustain me in the present. Any suggestions or helpful advice....thanks in advance for your comments!Life/Career change- need advice, please. Should I venture into a small business or go back to school for PT?
You seem to be interested in the business part more, I would choose the thing you are most interested in, but know that you will have to sacrafice financially for which ever you choose. They both will take time and money.
You seem to be interested in the business part more, I would choose the thing you are most interested in, but know that you will have to sacrafice financially for which ever you choose. They both will take time and money.
College social life advice, PLEASE HELP ME?
Hi, I am entering my third year of college which is about to start very soon, I am a business major, I have roommates that don't socialize at all, I don't want to waste time trying to get them out of their room, how can i keep myself entertained? Most of my friends are in other colleges and my friends in my college are always doing their own thing or working or something, i really don't know what to do, its not that I'm weird and/or unsocial, its just that i can never find people to hang out with, i hate boredom and being alone, what do i do? please help me, o and i'm about to be 21 in 3 months.College social life advice, PLEASE HELP ME?
Is there a gym or social area nearby? In universities, there are many public and social areas where there are great opportunities to meet others!
Is there a gym or social area nearby? In universities, there are many public and social areas where there are great opportunities to meet others!
I need Life Advice !!! :O?
Okay seriously I have no boyfriend and in my last year in middle school. Also no boobs or *** including really tall and everybody is short in my school.So what should I do I need helpI need Life Advice !!! :O?
My advice to you is your in middle school. You have a lot of growing up to do.
My advice to you is your in middle school. You have a lot of growing up to do.
Need Love life Advice just ask?
I have helped 40 People TodayNeed Love life Advice just ask?
good 4 u but people wont come to you u got to go to them.Need Love life Advice just ask?
I helped more than 40 people hon. Go around and look for some problems that's all.
HELLO i NEED HELP
thx...It's ppl like u that makes the world a warmer place to live in.Love is hard, it's hard till it hurts.
i feel sorry for those people u helped. SOB! SOB!
good 4 u but people wont come to you u got to go to them.Need Love life Advice just ask?
I helped more than 40 people hon. Go around and look for some problems that's all.
HELLO i NEED HELP
thx...It's ppl like u that makes the world a warmer place to live in.Love is hard, it's hard till it hurts.
i feel sorry for those people u helped. SOB! SOB!
Help! I want to move from Academic life in London to Oxford.Has anyone got any advice?
Such as advice on what to do where to live,the Oxford Tube(How much for a Years worth of trips)Will the University pay for daily travel of this sort?Cheap eats?Mature College?Cost?Help! I want to move from Academic life in London to Oxford.Has anyone got any advice?
There is a wide selection of flats, digs, residences, etc. Your college will help or local estate and letting agencies. There are plenty of buses, but, no, the university will not pay daily bus fares, so get yourself a bike. Usual selection of high street chains for cheap food and the large numbers of students means there are plenty of them. College for mature students (full and part-time) is Kellogg College, Oxford University. Brookes University also caters for mature students at a less stratospheric academic level. Costs are bound to be less than London but not as much as you might expect. As regards general advice, unless you are currently attending Imperial, University College or LSE, forget Oxford University. You would be eaten alive academically. Brookes is a safer option.Help! I want to move from Academic life in London to Oxford.Has anyone got any advice?
remember your teddy bear hehe
Unfortunately, it has been many years since I've lived in Oxford, although I've returned many times to visit, so I can't give you a lot of inside advice, but I CAN tell you that Oxford doesn't have a tube! I'm afraid you would be stuck with buses!how to apply
There is a wide selection of flats, digs, residences, etc. Your college will help or local estate and letting agencies. There are plenty of buses, but, no, the university will not pay daily bus fares, so get yourself a bike. Usual selection of high street chains for cheap food and the large numbers of students means there are plenty of them. College for mature students (full and part-time) is Kellogg College, Oxford University. Brookes University also caters for mature students at a less stratospheric academic level. Costs are bound to be less than London but not as much as you might expect. As regards general advice, unless you are currently attending Imperial, University College or LSE, forget Oxford University. You would be eaten alive academically. Brookes is a safer option.Help! I want to move from Academic life in London to Oxford.Has anyone got any advice?
remember your teddy bear hehe
Unfortunately, it has been many years since I've lived in Oxford, although I've returned many times to visit, so I can't give you a lot of inside advice, but I CAN tell you that Oxford doesn't have a tube! I'm afraid you would be stuck with buses!
Self-Help, Life Advice, Relationships.?
I am 26 years old. I have multi-talents. College Graduate, Former Model(Won Talent Awards), Experienced Bartender, Talented at Home Repairs, Have superior sales/customer service/people skills, Excel at writing, Have great analytical skills(I can process and see key points in information that most others cannot), and I can read people well. The problem or weakness that I have is that I can be very shy, quiet, reserved, and passive. This was pretty much a learned behavior that I had acquired from my family. These weaknesses are something that I have been battling most of my life. Throughout my childhoold I was treated by others as a ';loner'; always being rejected. I only really have myself to blame for this. However, it has taken a toll on my confidence and self-esteem overall and is somewhat hindering my success. I just need some advice, in terms of how to build up my self-esteem and confidence to have the balls to do the things I want to do in life and not have any worries.Self-Help, Life Advice, Relationships.?
Very simple, Do What Makes You Happy
and
Treat Other People The Way You Would Have Them Treat You.Self-Help, Life Advice, Relationships.?
I found that most of my shyness occurred because I was self-conscious about what other people were thinking about me. While spending time in Alcoholics Anonymous, I discovered that if I stopped judging people (which is a no win situation anyway) I actually stopped thinking or worrying about what they might be thinking about me ! Wow,, a side-effect that I had not imagined....Give it a try! When we judge others, we lose anyway, because we see them as less than us, which makes us egotistical...or better than us, which makes us envious. Both, being negative emotions.
If only I had the answer...then I wouldn't have the exact same problem!
Truthfully though, I have been working really hard to change this aspect of myself, and I know you can do the same thing.
Get books and CD's on the subject. The books might seem corny, but trust me, the more you read and listen to things that teach you how to build yourself up, the better you will become at it.
I recently listened to a set that my dad gave me that centered around the fact that we are what we tell ourselves. That really hit home for me, because I was telling myself some pretty awful things.
When I catch myself doing it now, I force myself to switch it around. I even stand in front of the mirror at look at myself in the face and say outloud who I am. Even if I don't REALLY believe it, I'm saying it. The brain hears it and takes it in, and eventually that is going to make a big difference.
I know you can do this. It might take time. I mean, I'm still working on it. But it gets better everyday that you make an effort to change it.
self esteem is not fixed for life, our parents, teachers, authority figures influence the ideas we develop about ourselves. just retrain that inner critic, and take back control, decide that the inner voice won't be critical anymore, only constructive. how we feel about ourselves can influence how we live our lives. aim for accomplishments, not perfection.
This isn't the answer you are looking for but I thought I'd comment..
I am also extremely shy/quiet, and was a loner durring elementary and middle school. High school was alright, I was still pretty quiet but had a variety of friends.
I'm pretty much at your point, I'd like to build up my self esteem and confidence as well.
So, you are not alone!
But wow, you sound like you wouldn't have that trouble at all having all that experience and education.
the best self help is to help others, its good life advice and will benifit you in all areas of your life includeing relationships.
Very simple, Do What Makes You Happy
and
Treat Other People The Way You Would Have Them Treat You.Self-Help, Life Advice, Relationships.?
I found that most of my shyness occurred because I was self-conscious about what other people were thinking about me. While spending time in Alcoholics Anonymous, I discovered that if I stopped judging people (which is a no win situation anyway) I actually stopped thinking or worrying about what they might be thinking about me ! Wow,, a side-effect that I had not imagined....Give it a try! When we judge others, we lose anyway, because we see them as less than us, which makes us egotistical...or better than us, which makes us envious. Both, being negative emotions.
If only I had the answer...then I wouldn't have the exact same problem!
Truthfully though, I have been working really hard to change this aspect of myself, and I know you can do the same thing.
Get books and CD's on the subject. The books might seem corny, but trust me, the more you read and listen to things that teach you how to build yourself up, the better you will become at it.
I recently listened to a set that my dad gave me that centered around the fact that we are what we tell ourselves. That really hit home for me, because I was telling myself some pretty awful things.
When I catch myself doing it now, I force myself to switch it around. I even stand in front of the mirror at look at myself in the face and say outloud who I am. Even if I don't REALLY believe it, I'm saying it. The brain hears it and takes it in, and eventually that is going to make a big difference.
I know you can do this. It might take time. I mean, I'm still working on it. But it gets better everyday that you make an effort to change it.
self esteem is not fixed for life, our parents, teachers, authority figures influence the ideas we develop about ourselves. just retrain that inner critic, and take back control, decide that the inner voice won't be critical anymore, only constructive. how we feel about ourselves can influence how we live our lives. aim for accomplishments, not perfection.
This isn't the answer you are looking for but I thought I'd comment..
I am also extremely shy/quiet, and was a loner durring elementary and middle school. High school was alright, I was still pretty quiet but had a variety of friends.
I'm pretty much at your point, I'd like to build up my self esteem and confidence as well.
So, you are not alone!
But wow, you sound like you wouldn't have that trouble at all having all that experience and education.
the best self help is to help others, its good life advice and will benifit you in all areas of your life includeing relationships.
My life goal is be kind to everybody. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
But sometimes, people are trying to take advantage from you etc. What do you do? Thank you.My life goal is be kind to everybody. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
...smile and say: No, Thank YOU!
...enjoy!My life goal is be kind to everybody. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Being kind does not mean letting people take advantage of you. True, you must respect other people. But you have to respect yourself, too. Sometimes you can't be kind to everybody, you don't have to be mean either though.
Just love them.
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I鈥檓 making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
there's nothing wrong with be kind... but when they take advantage u say it straight
Of course most people try to take advantage. That's natural. You will give more than you get. But it's more blessed to give than to receive. And you will be happy, because you have made others happy.
My advice? Don't.Not everyone deserves it.When I meet someone,I am only as nice as I am required by society. to.If they do something to earn my respect,than I will treat them well.If they're just gonna be an A-hole than thats what they get back.If we're kind to everyone there will be no losers,and if there are no losers,there are no winners.
if i find one thats truley kind out of a million its worth all my time
Theres is no formula for this..I think you should just remain true to yourself and beliefs!! Sure there will always be people who will try to take advantage form you, you just have to be vigilant! Eventually i believe the people who take advantage of you will always get it back in some way..when you hurt someone..karma gets you back..So do your best to be truthful not only in your relationship but to yourself too!!
Hope this helps you a little!! And ps: i have the same goal as you!! But sometimes its hard!Just do your best!
dont worry about anybody, because what you sow is what you reap
if i am still here i was necessarily a bad person.
Depends on who it is. Most of the time I just I feel like you are trying to take advantage of me. Then I see where it goes from that.
Worthy goal but not practical. Expect the best from people but be prepared to say no. When people are to smooth they usually are trying to take you for a ride. When people get nervous it means they are unsure. Apply this rule and see what happens.
Let go of the desire to be kind and just be. By clinging to the goal you will draw more need to reach your goal and it will all ways be 'out there' in front of you but never attained.
Kindness is only gratitude and identification. If you are grateful for the relationship and identify that they are the same living essence you are it won't really matter what 'you' get out of it. You can only be taken advantage of if you feel that you have something to lose. If you feel you have more than enough then when they take you are happy they are getting.
Drop the goal and be.
you teach them to catch a fish
No one can be completely nice to EVERYBODY.
But everyone can TRY to show kindness toward others.
Just help others out when they're in need. But don't go OVER.
Tell them that you don't think its right to -do whatever they're asking that you feel is taking advantage of you-
:)
...smile and say: No, Thank YOU!
...enjoy!My life goal is be kind to everybody. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Being kind does not mean letting people take advantage of you. True, you must respect other people. But you have to respect yourself, too. Sometimes you can't be kind to everybody, you don't have to be mean either though.
Just love them.
A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I鈥檓 making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
there's nothing wrong with be kind... but when they take advantage u say it straight
Of course most people try to take advantage. That's natural. You will give more than you get. But it's more blessed to give than to receive. And you will be happy, because you have made others happy.
My advice? Don't.Not everyone deserves it.When I meet someone,I am only as nice as I am required by society. to.If they do something to earn my respect,than I will treat them well.If they're just gonna be an A-hole than thats what they get back.If we're kind to everyone there will be no losers,and if there are no losers,there are no winners.
if i find one thats truley kind out of a million its worth all my time
Theres is no formula for this..I think you should just remain true to yourself and beliefs!! Sure there will always be people who will try to take advantage form you, you just have to be vigilant! Eventually i believe the people who take advantage of you will always get it back in some way..when you hurt someone..karma gets you back..So do your best to be truthful not only in your relationship but to yourself too!!
Hope this helps you a little!! And ps: i have the same goal as you!! But sometimes its hard!Just do your best!
dont worry about anybody, because what you sow is what you reap
if i am still here i was necessarily a bad person.
Depends on who it is. Most of the time I just I feel like you are trying to take advantage of me. Then I see where it goes from that.
Worthy goal but not practical. Expect the best from people but be prepared to say no. When people are to smooth they usually are trying to take you for a ride. When people get nervous it means they are unsure. Apply this rule and see what happens.
Let go of the desire to be kind and just be. By clinging to the goal you will draw more need to reach your goal and it will all ways be 'out there' in front of you but never attained.
Kindness is only gratitude and identification. If you are grateful for the relationship and identify that they are the same living essence you are it won't really matter what 'you' get out of it. You can only be taken advantage of if you feel that you have something to lose. If you feel you have more than enough then when they take you are happy they are getting.
Drop the goal and be.
you teach them to catch a fish
No one can be completely nice to EVERYBODY.
But everyone can TRY to show kindness toward others.
Just help others out when they're in need. But don't go OVER.
Tell them that you don't think its right to -do whatever they're asking that you feel is taking advantage of you-
:)
I just graduated highschool. Any life advice??
It can be about work, guys, money, anything.I just graduated highschool. Any life advice??
Live the life you love and love the life you live
:D good advice ! ^^I just graduated highschool. Any life advice??
Get a secular education whether it is at a tech school, junior/community college, or university.
Don't stay tied down in a relationship at this point.
Enjoy yourself and being with your friends the rest will still be there when you're done putting yourself into a position of being autonomous.
Whenever possible save a bit of money but that will be really tough while attending college.
Don't drink %26amp; drive ever and don't ever get into a vehicle with someone who drinks and drives.
If you can't abstain from sex then be safe and protected the last thing you will want to do is be a parent at this early stage of your life. It will rob you of your youth and opportunity.
Remember that you teach people how to treat you so never settle and don't accept disrespect and abuse from anyone.
Put yourself into a position of never having to depend on any one else so education should be your priority.
If you are having trouble with financing then go see the financial aide counselor at your prospective school for guidance.
Don't look back; the past can't help you in your future.
Do nothing rash. If you find a great guy who want to marry you, but you are not ready, don't let him talk you into it. Anyone who respects and loves you will NOT push you into it.
Don't have kids unless you are sure you can properly care for them. Once you have them, you can't undo it.
Trust your intuition. If it seems funny, it's worth thinking twice about.
go to college if your pursuing a GREAT career, if not, dont waste your time and money.
make sure you have a job that'll last you till ur old, or learn ways to make money cuz social security wont exist in your time.
dont believe everything a guy tells u.. make sure he treats u like a queen, dont settle for less.
party while ur young, but dont party for too long, it'll destract u from accomplishing anything.
live life the best you can, and appreciate everything.
dont depend on ANYONE but urself.
dont be ignorant
drugs are waste of money in the end.
if a guy approaches you and says u could be a model, dont believe him unless he actually has a REAL agency and has a legitamate company portfolio.
dont expect anything or have expectations, you'll just be disappointed.
be optomistic
be happy! :D
dont be afraid to say whats on your mind. being honest and blunt is better than sugar coating anything.
people come and go, so dont base your life among ur friends... people grow up and move on... steer ur life where u want it to go rather than where ur friends are going.
and take risks
be random
be smart, use your head.
before you make any decision, think of the longterm results.
and live by the saying ';CARPE DIEM'; it means SEIZE THE DAY.
Listen to advice. If your mom tells you something, try and follow her advice. (some mom's are the best examples, but you know what I mean)
Learn by other people's mistakes.
It's okay to question what you don't understand or agree with.
Instead of arguing, agree to disagree.
Try to always say/think something positive about people (even if you don't like em, are tempted to make fun of them, etc.) You'll be a happier person.
Make goals. If they don't work out, that's fine, but have an idea where you want to go.
Enjoy your youth.
Take chances. If you have a chance to take a trip to S. Africa, go for it! Don't be afraid to go and try things!
Go to bed with a clear conscience.
Pray.
They took a poll of people over 75 and asked them what their biggest regret was. Response was overwhelming...they didn't take enough chances.
Have a chance for a new job, but you have to move? Driving cross country with friends? Going off to college? Think of them as new life adventures. You never know who or what will come your way because of it. You want to have few regrets!
Work: Try to do what you love, then it won't seem like work. And, don't listen to what others think you should be doing.
Guys: Don't sleep with any outside of marriage. You won't have to worry if you're pregnant, have an std, or AIDS, and you won't get used.
Any guy who truly loves you will wait. Just a fact.
Money: I haven't figured that one out, yet! But, if I had it to do over, I would have put back a certain amount of my check every month in savings.
Other things:
Eat as healthy as you can, because it eventually catches up with you.
Get into a good church, and make sure of your eternal salvation with the Lord, through Jesus. Plus, you will have a good church family, which is nice. People you can count on who can also count on you!
Stay away from alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, etc. Not good, plus you will save money!
Have some fun! Get a hobby, join a club, volunteer somewhere, etc.
continue your education!Also,try to learn at a young age that usually,whatever advice your parents give you,is worth listening too!They've been there,and only want what's best for you!!
Live today to the fullest, get a education, and be successful.
Don't look back to what coulda or woulda been.
But most important appreciate today because tomorrow may never come.
Best of wishes to your future!
go to college
have the time of your life
then graduate and get a job that you studied in college
work during weekends at college or something to help pay for things and tuition
THINK. Your conscience is highly underrated. Be kind, be righteous, do what is right for humanity, for God.
watch out for credit cards they can ruin your life... go to college and have fun... wait to have kids
don't spend your life doing something that you dread.
its short. why spend it in agony?
do what feels right to you, if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.
Live the life you love and love the life you live
:D good advice ! ^^I just graduated highschool. Any life advice??
Get a secular education whether it is at a tech school, junior/community college, or university.
Don't stay tied down in a relationship at this point.
Enjoy yourself and being with your friends the rest will still be there when you're done putting yourself into a position of being autonomous.
Whenever possible save a bit of money but that will be really tough while attending college.
Don't drink %26amp; drive ever and don't ever get into a vehicle with someone who drinks and drives.
If you can't abstain from sex then be safe and protected the last thing you will want to do is be a parent at this early stage of your life. It will rob you of your youth and opportunity.
Remember that you teach people how to treat you so never settle and don't accept disrespect and abuse from anyone.
Put yourself into a position of never having to depend on any one else so education should be your priority.
If you are having trouble with financing then go see the financial aide counselor at your prospective school for guidance.
Don't look back; the past can't help you in your future.
Do nothing rash. If you find a great guy who want to marry you, but you are not ready, don't let him talk you into it. Anyone who respects and loves you will NOT push you into it.
Don't have kids unless you are sure you can properly care for them. Once you have them, you can't undo it.
Trust your intuition. If it seems funny, it's worth thinking twice about.
go to college if your pursuing a GREAT career, if not, dont waste your time and money.
make sure you have a job that'll last you till ur old, or learn ways to make money cuz social security wont exist in your time.
dont believe everything a guy tells u.. make sure he treats u like a queen, dont settle for less.
party while ur young, but dont party for too long, it'll destract u from accomplishing anything.
live life the best you can, and appreciate everything.
dont depend on ANYONE but urself.
dont be ignorant
drugs are waste of money in the end.
if a guy approaches you and says u could be a model, dont believe him unless he actually has a REAL agency and has a legitamate company portfolio.
dont expect anything or have expectations, you'll just be disappointed.
be optomistic
be happy! :D
dont be afraid to say whats on your mind. being honest and blunt is better than sugar coating anything.
people come and go, so dont base your life among ur friends... people grow up and move on... steer ur life where u want it to go rather than where ur friends are going.
and take risks
be random
be smart, use your head.
before you make any decision, think of the longterm results.
and live by the saying ';CARPE DIEM'; it means SEIZE THE DAY.
Listen to advice. If your mom tells you something, try and follow her advice. (some mom's are the best examples, but you know what I mean)
Learn by other people's mistakes.
It's okay to question what you don't understand or agree with.
Instead of arguing, agree to disagree.
Try to always say/think something positive about people (even if you don't like em, are tempted to make fun of them, etc.) You'll be a happier person.
Make goals. If they don't work out, that's fine, but have an idea where you want to go.
Enjoy your youth.
Take chances. If you have a chance to take a trip to S. Africa, go for it! Don't be afraid to go and try things!
Go to bed with a clear conscience.
Pray.
They took a poll of people over 75 and asked them what their biggest regret was. Response was overwhelming...they didn't take enough chances.
Have a chance for a new job, but you have to move? Driving cross country with friends? Going off to college? Think of them as new life adventures. You never know who or what will come your way because of it. You want to have few regrets!
Work: Try to do what you love, then it won't seem like work. And, don't listen to what others think you should be doing.
Guys: Don't sleep with any outside of marriage. You won't have to worry if you're pregnant, have an std, or AIDS, and you won't get used.
Any guy who truly loves you will wait. Just a fact.
Money: I haven't figured that one out, yet! But, if I had it to do over, I would have put back a certain amount of my check every month in savings.
Other things:
Eat as healthy as you can, because it eventually catches up with you.
Get into a good church, and make sure of your eternal salvation with the Lord, through Jesus. Plus, you will have a good church family, which is nice. People you can count on who can also count on you!
Stay away from alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, etc. Not good, plus you will save money!
Have some fun! Get a hobby, join a club, volunteer somewhere, etc.
continue your education!Also,try to learn at a young age that usually,whatever advice your parents give you,is worth listening too!They've been there,and only want what's best for you!!
Live today to the fullest, get a education, and be successful.
Don't look back to what coulda or woulda been.
But most important appreciate today because tomorrow may never come.
Best of wishes to your future!
go to college
have the time of your life
then graduate and get a job that you studied in college
work during weekends at college or something to help pay for things and tuition
THINK. Your conscience is highly underrated. Be kind, be righteous, do what is right for humanity, for God.
watch out for credit cards they can ruin your life... go to college and have fun... wait to have kids
don't spend your life doing something that you dread.
its short. why spend it in agony?
do what feels right to you, if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.
How has Michael Weston's advice on being a spy on ';Burn Notice'; helped you in your daily life?
Lol. I think this show is great. And yes Michael Weston is very wise. :)
Sex Life? Advice Please!?
My bf isnt into sex as much lately, actually for a while! How can I get him into the mood? Whats the longest you've ever gone without sex in a relationship? A week? A month? We definately love each other, and will always work out our problems! Any suggestions?Sex Life? Advice Please!?
Get spontanious, do the unexpected or maybe do something really romantic. I don't think it's unusual to go for a week or two without having sex but, that should give you some sort of hint that something is'nt right whether it be anything to do with you or not.Sex Life? Advice Please!?
Well I'm sorry but me and my man we go at it just about every chance we get...but the longest I didnt have it was a total of 3 going on 4 months...and he was doing that to punish me!..Ha,ha..yea right...he was craving it too!! he,he...wellz all i can say is...make your self seem vulnerable and if that dont work just get ya man drunk!..lolz
I've gone a month. And I'm beginning to resent my boyfriend because he isn't as sexual as me. If you guys aren't sexually compatible, its hard to work out.
How long has it been?
I'm sitting without the good stuff for 2 months so far, my gf's overseas.
Does he stop if you initiate (like, starting to kiss him first?)? If you haven't initiated, try so. If you have and the response isn't great, then hopefully the other memebers can help you. I've never had that problem.
Geez never heard of that! Good luck!
Have you gained weight??
Maybe he is getting it from some where else.
Guys dont tend to loose interest in sex.
We definately love each other, and will always work out our problems!
maybe you have had way too many things to work out and he is done trying to fix them and is movng on.
A few months ago, Cosmopolitan Mag. wrote an article about ';How to tell if your man is gay.'; You might want to read it.
However, he may also not be into you as much as he used to be. I can say from personal experience that my ex-husband and I (before we divorced, of course) would go months at the time without having sexual relations. The thought of having sex with him would just turn me off. I just couldn't bring myself to get in the mood. I would then start to feel guilty so I would force myself. This went on for about 4 years before we both decided to call our marriage quits.
Get spontanious, do the unexpected or maybe do something really romantic. I don't think it's unusual to go for a week or two without having sex but, that should give you some sort of hint that something is'nt right whether it be anything to do with you or not.Sex Life? Advice Please!?
Well I'm sorry but me and my man we go at it just about every chance we get...but the longest I didnt have it was a total of 3 going on 4 months...and he was doing that to punish me!..Ha,ha..yea right...he was craving it too!! he,he...wellz all i can say is...make your self seem vulnerable and if that dont work just get ya man drunk!..lolz
I've gone a month. And I'm beginning to resent my boyfriend because he isn't as sexual as me. If you guys aren't sexually compatible, its hard to work out.
How long has it been?
I'm sitting without the good stuff for 2 months so far, my gf's overseas.
Does he stop if you initiate (like, starting to kiss him first?)? If you haven't initiated, try so. If you have and the response isn't great, then hopefully the other memebers can help you. I've never had that problem.
Geez never heard of that! Good luck!
Have you gained weight??
Maybe he is getting it from some where else.
Guys dont tend to loose interest in sex.
We definately love each other, and will always work out our problems!
maybe you have had way too many things to work out and he is done trying to fix them and is movng on.
A few months ago, Cosmopolitan Mag. wrote an article about ';How to tell if your man is gay.'; You might want to read it.
However, he may also not be into you as much as he used to be. I can say from personal experience that my ex-husband and I (before we divorced, of course) would go months at the time without having sexual relations. The thought of having sex with him would just turn me off. I just couldn't bring myself to get in the mood. I would then start to feel guilty so I would force myself. This went on for about 4 years before we both decided to call our marriage quits.
How has Michael Weston's advice on being a spy on ';Burn Notice'; helped you in your daily life?
Lol. I think this show is great. And yes Michael Weston is very wise. :)how to apply
Need life advice, thanks.?
I amd 28 and I recently left a dream job that I just started, I still dont know why I left. Social anexiety, didnt want to see people in bad financial situations, not sure. It was a mortgage job that payed $150k but probably would have make $200k or more. I am having a hard time finding any job that pays even 100k or that I would like to do.
I wanted to be successful my whole life, I feel like I failed. I havnt had a girl friend in years and dont know if i will any time soon which also makes me depressed.
I just want to make a decent amount of money and leave it for my mom and go away. What do you think?Need life advice, thanks.?
You bring up several things here. You quit things impulsively (your job); you want to be successful but you sabotage it. You don't have a girlfriend (you don't say if you have other friends), and you have what you call ';social anxiety.'; Your last paragraph suggests that you are considering suicide.
This is far too much to handle in this forum. It is also too much for you or anybody to handle on their own. You need serious mental health treatment in order to sort out all the stuff in your head.
28 is still quite young, and you have plenty of time to have all the things you dream of (relationships and success for instance). But do not continue to ruin your chances for lack of self-understanding and self-mastery. Get yourself to a counselor (I suggest an LMSW or LSW social worker) as soon as you can. Call a mental health hotline for recommendations of people in your area.
The part where you said you were concerned about seeing people in bad financial situations is a good sign. It is true that mortgage banks are engaging in a lot of unethical behavior. It is good that you didn't want to see people suffer from that, and that you didn't want to participate in it. Now transfer some of that sympathy for others onto yourself, and take care of yourself too.Need life advice, thanks.?
Bill stop being so hard on yourself ,this job just didn;t work out there are others go to a placement service they will find what you are qualified for ...and so what if you don;t have a girlfriend take care of you get a good job then worry about a girlfriend why do you want to go away what are you running from take life as it comes and take care of you ...love kaa
You need to see about taking care of the depression. At least take one of the many general tests that are available on the Internet. You owe it to yourself first. If it's depression, you don't just think it away; it doesn't get better by itself.
Dont beat yourself up that you dont have it all together. Many are much older than you.
You gave up that job because it was not suited to you. A job is a job. Anyone can have one. The secret to being happy is finding the right one, the perfect match. So many people settle for less. They get jobs they hate and stay for the money or the benefits. This is not smart. It is better to give it up and connect with the job that fits your personality and lifestyle.
You are young and so you think money is everything. I am older and I am telling you it is not everything. Sure I am well-off and it helps so that I dont have to work but I can tell you dont ever get stuck in a job that does not make you happy. If I had it to do over, I would have done with less and enjoyed life more. All my money can not make me happy. I know you dont believe this, I did not believe it either when I was your age but it is TRUE.
True happiness comes when you accept yourself and follow your destiny. What is your Destiny? You will know when it hits you. You will say WOW why did I not do this long ago.
Start soul searching. Right before bed each night write down the things you enjoy. Make a list. First night write down what you enjoy doing in life (hobbys or ?) Next night write down jobs that you think you may be good at? The next night write down jobs that you think you would love? Each day look at your list when you first get up after your mind works on it through the night. Add or delete or if you get the urge write your thoughts.
Compile all this and then make a plan. The top job, look at it, and decide what you need to do to make it reality and then do it. Move your life in that direction. Even if you have to take a low wage job until you get the skills you need.
The number one advise I can offer is have great OPTIMISM. This will bring you positive energy which in turn can create a wonderful life for you. It can open your heart so that you can find your soulmate. It can get rid of your depression. It can bring you money and wisdom.
Here is a must read book for you. Please Please read it and take the advice in it. It can truly change your life if you put it into practice.
The Luck Factor by Dr. Richard Wiseman
Buy it on Amazon or Ebay. This is the best help I can offer, please accept it. I know you can do it. I trust you can be the Best you Can Be.
~Never work a job that you dont like no matter how much it pays,,(well we all have to sometimes but if its not for you,,seek another).
~You have a kind heart,,that in itself is a great quality.
~You havent failed,,find your passion.
~You just havent found ';the one'; yet.(there is only one,,you just havent met her yet).
~Thoughtful to think of your Mom,,I think of my Moms happiness as well but remember she would rather have you in her life than for you to go away.
~Thats what I think.
Bill, I think you need to know what really you want out of life!? Figure out what really makes YOU happy! First before I say anything more I would like to recommend two books to you for finding purpose in your life! 1. The Purpose Driven Life. by Rick Warren 2002 and 2. Your Best Life Now by Joel Osteen 2004. I believe that your feeling almost to the state of emptiness. Life is more that money,material things and work status! I believe the reason you feel this way is because your heart is feeling that something is missing. I believe that something is God and Jesus! The Bible says that you were created to have a fellowship with God, and to have Him at the center of your life. Did you know God loves you and values you! ';God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son Jesus, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.'; (John 3:16)Know apart from Jesus Christ, the Bible tells us, we are ';harassed and helpless, like sheep with out a shepherd'; (Matt 9:36). But God loves us, and one reason he has allowed you to have this feeling of emptiness in your heart is that He loves you and wants you to seek and have a relationship with him. No matter how hard we try or what means we use--material possessions, money, pleasure, drugs, or whatever--the emptiness is still there. The thing is that if you let your emptiness go this leads into depression! How do I know this? Because I have dealt with that empty feeling, life with no purpose or meaning and eventually depression. The three things that really turned my life around was: 1. Knowing that God and Jesus Loved me and I was valued! 2. Knowing I had people on my side at church, in my social life and in my family that cared about me! and 3. I had to get myself out of the atmosphere that I was in! When you put yourself in line with what God has for you, then you will see yourself back with a renewed joy! I would not be telling you this if I had not experienced what you feel myself! Know down inside you are looking for love and happiness but you will never find it the way you are living right now. God created you, and God loves you. His only Son, Jesus Christ, loved you so much that he gave His life on the cross so you could be saved and break free from in perfectness, sin and this empty feeling to become a child of God. When you accept Jesus Christ into your life, something wonderful and supernatural happens. God Himself comes to dwell within you! You become part of His family, and you can know the joy of His presence every day. The Bible says: ';Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you'; (Hebrews 13:5). As a christian I know that Church is a excellent place to meet people that might of once felt the way you do now with no purpose and they might tell you how now they live for Jesus and how they have found that purpose. Not only at church service but a lot of church's have activities like single events and small groups like bible study! Not only will you be meeting new people and developing relationships with them, you will be also be developing a relationship with God and Jesus by learning what the word of God (the Bible) has to offer you in your life, like questions like this one! Also I encourage you to take other steps to reach out to others. Are there others at work or in your neighborhood who are also feel life has no purpose? Are there others in your neighborhood or work who seem to have just a few friends? It may be not easy for you at first, but learn to be a friend to others. Is a good way to start to do something practical for someone else who has a need. The fact of the matter is you need to put yourself in a new atmosphere! I battled though depression! So, I felt like life was just one, big black, end less, tunnel that I felt so alone and that no one valued me! I later found out that I was valued! I was valued by Jesus because he gave his life on the cross for me! and in essence I was carrying my own cross and Jesus said let me carry that for a while and you put your faith in me and I will bring you hope for the future and a future partner! You know what? He did! Now am happily married to the woman of my dreams! And you to can have that person you desire and things in your life will have meaning and purpose if you believe in yourself and start having a relationship with Jesus! I will be praying for you brother! Right now! Pray to Jesus, tell him you don't want to have a life without a purpose anymore! You want him to come into your heart by faith! Tell him you want him and him alone to come and stay with you and bring you comfort and wisdom. In Jesus Name! Amen!
You need a really good friend and a big pick me up. Social anexity probably not the cause. Depressed, yes, lonely, yes, go out and have a good time with a good friend, relax, have some fun, go out to a club, get out get ur hair done, pick out some new clothes, and go out! The next day, be spirtited and tell yourself its all ok. Youll never find what your looking for while your looking, and it sounds like you could have looked to hard. Be positive and all will work out! Good luck!
Well you left allready so try not to regret it, if you are having such a hard time finding another job, can you go back to that other job? or maybe you can find another mortgage place where you can apply your knowledge there is a lot mortgages places who will receive you, maybe you can work in the back not at front talking to people, maybe you can work doing some calls, or toher things like date on the computer, try to find a fit , maybe you will make less money , but you will be more relax.
Go out with people then maybe you can meet someone.
thats sweet that you want to make money for your mom, but still there is a hunger inside you that wants to make money, just keep trying, you will find the answer.
Sounds to me like you might be suffering from depression. See your doctor and get checked out...Depression is a chemical problem within the brain (too much serotonin!) and there are some great treatments out there for it that can really help you out.
Good luck!
Orion
I wanted to be successful my whole life, I feel like I failed. I havnt had a girl friend in years and dont know if i will any time soon which also makes me depressed.
I just want to make a decent amount of money and leave it for my mom and go away. What do you think?Need life advice, thanks.?
You bring up several things here. You quit things impulsively (your job); you want to be successful but you sabotage it. You don't have a girlfriend (you don't say if you have other friends), and you have what you call ';social anxiety.'; Your last paragraph suggests that you are considering suicide.
This is far too much to handle in this forum. It is also too much for you or anybody to handle on their own. You need serious mental health treatment in order to sort out all the stuff in your head.
28 is still quite young, and you have plenty of time to have all the things you dream of (relationships and success for instance). But do not continue to ruin your chances for lack of self-understanding and self-mastery. Get yourself to a counselor (I suggest an LMSW or LSW social worker) as soon as you can. Call a mental health hotline for recommendations of people in your area.
The part where you said you were concerned about seeing people in bad financial situations is a good sign. It is true that mortgage banks are engaging in a lot of unethical behavior. It is good that you didn't want to see people suffer from that, and that you didn't want to participate in it. Now transfer some of that sympathy for others onto yourself, and take care of yourself too.Need life advice, thanks.?
Bill stop being so hard on yourself ,this job just didn;t work out there are others go to a placement service they will find what you are qualified for ...and so what if you don;t have a girlfriend take care of you get a good job then worry about a girlfriend why do you want to go away what are you running from take life as it comes and take care of you ...love kaa
You need to see about taking care of the depression. At least take one of the many general tests that are available on the Internet. You owe it to yourself first. If it's depression, you don't just think it away; it doesn't get better by itself.
Dont beat yourself up that you dont have it all together. Many are much older than you.
You gave up that job because it was not suited to you. A job is a job. Anyone can have one. The secret to being happy is finding the right one, the perfect match. So many people settle for less. They get jobs they hate and stay for the money or the benefits. This is not smart. It is better to give it up and connect with the job that fits your personality and lifestyle.
You are young and so you think money is everything. I am older and I am telling you it is not everything. Sure I am well-off and it helps so that I dont have to work but I can tell you dont ever get stuck in a job that does not make you happy. If I had it to do over, I would have done with less and enjoyed life more. All my money can not make me happy. I know you dont believe this, I did not believe it either when I was your age but it is TRUE.
True happiness comes when you accept yourself and follow your destiny. What is your Destiny? You will know when it hits you. You will say WOW why did I not do this long ago.
Start soul searching. Right before bed each night write down the things you enjoy. Make a list. First night write down what you enjoy doing in life (hobbys or ?) Next night write down jobs that you think you may be good at? The next night write down jobs that you think you would love? Each day look at your list when you first get up after your mind works on it through the night. Add or delete or if you get the urge write your thoughts.
Compile all this and then make a plan. The top job, look at it, and decide what you need to do to make it reality and then do it. Move your life in that direction. Even if you have to take a low wage job until you get the skills you need.
The number one advise I can offer is have great OPTIMISM. This will bring you positive energy which in turn can create a wonderful life for you. It can open your heart so that you can find your soulmate. It can get rid of your depression. It can bring you money and wisdom.
Here is a must read book for you. Please Please read it and take the advice in it. It can truly change your life if you put it into practice.
The Luck Factor by Dr. Richard Wiseman
Buy it on Amazon or Ebay. This is the best help I can offer, please accept it. I know you can do it. I trust you can be the Best you Can Be.
~Never work a job that you dont like no matter how much it pays,,(well we all have to sometimes but if its not for you,,seek another).
~You have a kind heart,,that in itself is a great quality.
~You havent failed,,find your passion.
~You just havent found ';the one'; yet.(there is only one,,you just havent met her yet).
~Thoughtful to think of your Mom,,I think of my Moms happiness as well but remember she would rather have you in her life than for you to go away.
~Thats what I think.
Bill, I think you need to know what really you want out of life!? Figure out what really makes YOU happy! First before I say anything more I would like to recommend two books to you for finding purpose in your life! 1. The Purpose Driven Life. by Rick Warren 2002 and 2. Your Best Life Now by Joel Osteen 2004. I believe that your feeling almost to the state of emptiness. Life is more that money,material things and work status! I believe the reason you feel this way is because your heart is feeling that something is missing. I believe that something is God and Jesus! The Bible says that you were created to have a fellowship with God, and to have Him at the center of your life. Did you know God loves you and values you! ';God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son Jesus, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.'; (John 3:16)Know apart from Jesus Christ, the Bible tells us, we are ';harassed and helpless, like sheep with out a shepherd'; (Matt 9:36). But God loves us, and one reason he has allowed you to have this feeling of emptiness in your heart is that He loves you and wants you to seek and have a relationship with him. No matter how hard we try or what means we use--material possessions, money, pleasure, drugs, or whatever--the emptiness is still there. The thing is that if you let your emptiness go this leads into depression! How do I know this? Because I have dealt with that empty feeling, life with no purpose or meaning and eventually depression. The three things that really turned my life around was: 1. Knowing that God and Jesus Loved me and I was valued! 2. Knowing I had people on my side at church, in my social life and in my family that cared about me! and 3. I had to get myself out of the atmosphere that I was in! When you put yourself in line with what God has for you, then you will see yourself back with a renewed joy! I would not be telling you this if I had not experienced what you feel myself! Know down inside you are looking for love and happiness but you will never find it the way you are living right now. God created you, and God loves you. His only Son, Jesus Christ, loved you so much that he gave His life on the cross so you could be saved and break free from in perfectness, sin and this empty feeling to become a child of God. When you accept Jesus Christ into your life, something wonderful and supernatural happens. God Himself comes to dwell within you! You become part of His family, and you can know the joy of His presence every day. The Bible says: ';Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you'; (Hebrews 13:5). As a christian I know that Church is a excellent place to meet people that might of once felt the way you do now with no purpose and they might tell you how now they live for Jesus and how they have found that purpose. Not only at church service but a lot of church's have activities like single events and small groups like bible study! Not only will you be meeting new people and developing relationships with them, you will be also be developing a relationship with God and Jesus by learning what the word of God (the Bible) has to offer you in your life, like questions like this one! Also I encourage you to take other steps to reach out to others. Are there others at work or in your neighborhood who are also feel life has no purpose? Are there others in your neighborhood or work who seem to have just a few friends? It may be not easy for you at first, but learn to be a friend to others. Is a good way to start to do something practical for someone else who has a need. The fact of the matter is you need to put yourself in a new atmosphere! I battled though depression! So, I felt like life was just one, big black, end less, tunnel that I felt so alone and that no one valued me! I later found out that I was valued! I was valued by Jesus because he gave his life on the cross for me! and in essence I was carrying my own cross and Jesus said let me carry that for a while and you put your faith in me and I will bring you hope for the future and a future partner! You know what? He did! Now am happily married to the woman of my dreams! And you to can have that person you desire and things in your life will have meaning and purpose if you believe in yourself and start having a relationship with Jesus! I will be praying for you brother! Right now! Pray to Jesus, tell him you don't want to have a life without a purpose anymore! You want him to come into your heart by faith! Tell him you want him and him alone to come and stay with you and bring you comfort and wisdom. In Jesus Name! Amen!
You need a really good friend and a big pick me up. Social anexity probably not the cause. Depressed, yes, lonely, yes, go out and have a good time with a good friend, relax, have some fun, go out to a club, get out get ur hair done, pick out some new clothes, and go out! The next day, be spirtited and tell yourself its all ok. Youll never find what your looking for while your looking, and it sounds like you could have looked to hard. Be positive and all will work out! Good luck!
Well you left allready so try not to regret it, if you are having such a hard time finding another job, can you go back to that other job? or maybe you can find another mortgage place where you can apply your knowledge there is a lot mortgages places who will receive you, maybe you can work in the back not at front talking to people, maybe you can work doing some calls, or toher things like date on the computer, try to find a fit , maybe you will make less money , but you will be more relax.
Go out with people then maybe you can meet someone.
thats sweet that you want to make money for your mom, but still there is a hunger inside you that wants to make money, just keep trying, you will find the answer.
Sounds to me like you might be suffering from depression. See your doctor and get checked out...Depression is a chemical problem within the brain (too much serotonin!) and there are some great treatments out there for it that can really help you out.
Good luck!
Orion
Sex Life? Advice Please!?
My bf isnt into sex as much lately, actually for a while! How can I get him into the mood? Whats the longest you've ever gone without sex in a relationship? A week? A month? We definately love each other, and will always work out our problems! Any suggestions?Sex Life? Advice Please!?
Get spontanious, do the unexpected or maybe do something really romantic. I don't think it's unusual to go for a week or two without having sex but, that should give you some sort of hint that something is'nt right whether it be anything to do with you or not.Sex Life? Advice Please!?
Well I'm sorry but me and my man we go at it just about every chance we get...but the longest I didnt have it was a total of 3 going on 4 months...and he was doing that to punish me!..Ha,ha..yea right...he was craving it too!! he,he...wellz all i can say is...make your self seem vulnerable and if that dont work just get ya man drunk!..lolz
I've gone a month. And I'm beginning to resent my boyfriend because he isn't as sexual as me. If you guys aren't sexually compatible, its hard to work out.
How long has it been?
I'm sitting without the good stuff for 2 months so far, my gf's overseas.
Does he stop if you initiate (like, starting to kiss him first?)? If you haven't initiated, try so. If you have and the response isn't great, then hopefully the other memebers can help you. I've never had that problem.
Geez never heard of that! Good luck!
Have you gained weight??
Maybe he is getting it from some where else.
Guys dont tend to loose interest in sex.
We definately love each other, and will always work out our problems!
maybe you have had way too many things to work out and he is done trying to fix them and is movng on.
A few months ago, Cosmopolitan Mag. wrote an article about ';How to tell if your man is gay.'; You might want to read it.
However, he may also not be into you as much as he used to be. I can say from personal experience that my ex-husband and I (before we divorced, of course) would go months at the time without having sexual relations. The thought of having sex with him would just turn me off. I just couldn't bring myself to get in the mood. I would then start to feel guilty so I would force myself. This went on for about 4 years before we both decided to call our marriage quits.
Get spontanious, do the unexpected or maybe do something really romantic. I don't think it's unusual to go for a week or two without having sex but, that should give you some sort of hint that something is'nt right whether it be anything to do with you or not.Sex Life? Advice Please!?
Well I'm sorry but me and my man we go at it just about every chance we get...but the longest I didnt have it was a total of 3 going on 4 months...and he was doing that to punish me!..Ha,ha..yea right...he was craving it too!! he,he...wellz all i can say is...make your self seem vulnerable and if that dont work just get ya man drunk!..lolz
I've gone a month. And I'm beginning to resent my boyfriend because he isn't as sexual as me. If you guys aren't sexually compatible, its hard to work out.
How long has it been?
I'm sitting without the good stuff for 2 months so far, my gf's overseas.
Does he stop if you initiate (like, starting to kiss him first?)? If you haven't initiated, try so. If you have and the response isn't great, then hopefully the other memebers can help you. I've never had that problem.
Geez never heard of that! Good luck!
Have you gained weight??
Maybe he is getting it from some where else.
Guys dont tend to loose interest in sex.
We definately love each other, and will always work out our problems!
maybe you have had way too many things to work out and he is done trying to fix them and is movng on.
A few months ago, Cosmopolitan Mag. wrote an article about ';How to tell if your man is gay.'; You might want to read it.
However, he may also not be into you as much as he used to be. I can say from personal experience that my ex-husband and I (before we divorced, of course) would go months at the time without having sexual relations. The thought of having sex with him would just turn me off. I just couldn't bring myself to get in the mood. I would then start to feel guilty so I would force myself. This went on for about 4 years before we both decided to call our marriage quits.
The Breakup? I feel like this is my life, advice???
I feel like my relationship with my fiance is parallel to the problems in the movie, ';The Breakup';. I'm so frustrated and I could use some advice...how should I deal with an inconsiderate slob that I'm supposed to be getting married to? He never takes the initiative to help me around the house unless I ask him to and when I do, he acts like I've asked him the worst favor in the world.
Are all men like this? How do you deal with that? HELP!The Breakup? I feel like this is my life, advice???
Well this is why you date and it would appear to me at the risk of you thinking I am insulting you, that you didn't date him long enough or you would have learned this about him at some point. These aren't subtle things. Being considerate enough to be a partner in this relationship is something that you should have had some clues on long ago. Dating is all about collecting information about the other party so you can make an intelligent decision when it comes to actually making a life long commitment. Frankly it sounds like unless this is the kind of behavior you are willing to put up with, then maybe you need to keep on the dating circuit.You don't want to make a bad choice....then marry your bad choice and then worst of all bring kids into this world based on your bad choice. Sorry if that seems harsh but hey...look around the world...there are so many bad choices being made every day...don't be one of them...Good Luck!The Breakup? I feel like this is my life, advice???
well at the end of the break up they were together again.
So as what happended in the movie...
Walk around the house naked and tell him to do things..
As gross as it sounds to you chances are it will actually work
Or make him jealous
u shouldnt date 12 year olds.. it may be too young
Are all men like this? How do you deal with that? HELP!The Breakup? I feel like this is my life, advice???
Well this is why you date and it would appear to me at the risk of you thinking I am insulting you, that you didn't date him long enough or you would have learned this about him at some point. These aren't subtle things. Being considerate enough to be a partner in this relationship is something that you should have had some clues on long ago. Dating is all about collecting information about the other party so you can make an intelligent decision when it comes to actually making a life long commitment. Frankly it sounds like unless this is the kind of behavior you are willing to put up with, then maybe you need to keep on the dating circuit.You don't want to make a bad choice....then marry your bad choice and then worst of all bring kids into this world based on your bad choice. Sorry if that seems harsh but hey...look around the world...there are so many bad choices being made every day...don't be one of them...Good Luck!The Breakup? I feel like this is my life, advice???
well at the end of the break up they were together again.
So as what happended in the movie...
Walk around the house naked and tell him to do things..
As gross as it sounds to you chances are it will actually work
Or make him jealous
u shouldnt date 12 year olds.. it may be too young
I feel useless in life, advice?
I don't feel like I am good at anything... and I feel as if nobody needs me... :( Advice..I feel useless in life, advice?
Sorry about that dear...but know this we are all worth something, don't let anyone tell you different you were chosen from birth to be here there is a reason for that i feel you just havn't found what your purpose is in life, or tapped into what you're good i actually believe if you take time to ask yourself what you enjoy doing, and usually what we enjoy doing we will do it well because we like it....keep telling yourself you are just as good as anyone else and keep building on your self esteem it seems a little low at the moment with time your confidence will grow, and you will see things differently....one more thing there is always somebody out there who will need you,,,,, try volunteer work it's very rewarding to know you are giving to others, we all need eachother, you are valuable everyone of us has something to give and a purpose, you will find yours...good luck and be kind to yourself.I feel useless in life, advice?
Volunteer to help out the needy. They really really need you, and it sounds like perhaps you need them. I think it would be a win for both sides.
Consider yourself lucky. When people start needing you, that when the problems begin.
be gentle with yourself...
Believe in yourself that you can do something. It starts within you.
do sumpin
Someone in this world needs you.....and you are worth so much..... :)
u shouldnt sit around thinking this,just GO %26amp; do something!
ask someone if they need pet care or baby sitting.
This might sound corny, but you need to meditate. just chill and relax. enjoy a hot shower from time to time. let no one make you feel like s#$%. enjoy the little things in life.
How can you be one if you're born a CHAMPION. No one else in this world is exactly like you. You're UNIQUE LL!
Stop feeling useless.... There are many people who can't live without you.
Volunteer! There'a a bajillion organizations that need help from people, will teach you how to contribute, don't take up too much time, and will -definitely- make you feel soooo much better about yourself.
Fisrt of all you have to find what it is that you enjoy, If its sport take up tennis or swimming. they can lead to careers later in life or just something for yourself. If its art, take a course you. The point is try and think of something you enjoy and take it further. Im sure people need you. we all need someone. goodluck :).
maybe you are trying to doo too much at once. Try to find what you are good at and keep at it until people realise that you are valuable
Aww...So wrong. You are usefull, if you want to talk, you can add me to chat, or email. I want to help.
Have a grand evening.
Sorry about that dear...but know this we are all worth something, don't let anyone tell you different you were chosen from birth to be here there is a reason for that i feel you just havn't found what your purpose is in life, or tapped into what you're good i actually believe if you take time to ask yourself what you enjoy doing, and usually what we enjoy doing we will do it well because we like it....keep telling yourself you are just as good as anyone else and keep building on your self esteem it seems a little low at the moment with time your confidence will grow, and you will see things differently....one more thing there is always somebody out there who will need you,,,,, try volunteer work it's very rewarding to know you are giving to others, we all need eachother, you are valuable everyone of us has something to give and a purpose, you will find yours...good luck and be kind to yourself.I feel useless in life, advice?
Volunteer to help out the needy. They really really need you, and it sounds like perhaps you need them. I think it would be a win for both sides.
Consider yourself lucky. When people start needing you, that when the problems begin.
be gentle with yourself...
Believe in yourself that you can do something. It starts within you.
do sumpin
Someone in this world needs you.....and you are worth so much..... :)
u shouldnt sit around thinking this,just GO %26amp; do something!
ask someone if they need pet care or baby sitting.
This might sound corny, but you need to meditate. just chill and relax. enjoy a hot shower from time to time. let no one make you feel like s#$%. enjoy the little things in life.
How can you be one if you're born a CHAMPION. No one else in this world is exactly like you. You're UNIQUE LL!
Stop feeling useless.... There are many people who can't live without you.
Volunteer! There'a a bajillion organizations that need help from people, will teach you how to contribute, don't take up too much time, and will -definitely- make you feel soooo much better about yourself.
Fisrt of all you have to find what it is that you enjoy, If its sport take up tennis or swimming. they can lead to careers later in life or just something for yourself. If its art, take a course you. The point is try and think of something you enjoy and take it further. Im sure people need you. we all need someone. goodluck :).
maybe you are trying to doo too much at once. Try to find what you are good at and keep at it until people realise that you are valuable
Aww...So wrong. You are usefull, if you want to talk, you can add me to chat, or email. I want to help.
Have a grand evening.
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