Sunday, July 25, 2010

What is your best advice about life?

I have just graduated from college/university. I feel as if I'm growing up too fast and could have benefited greatly if I had known some things about life a few years before. Does anyone have any general advise to help me out as I continue on my journey in life?What is your best advice about life?
I am getting on in years, but I remember how invincible I felt when I was much younger, so here goes. Remember you are not invincible, there are a lot worse things than dying. Pick your battles well, you will learn much more from your mistakes than successes. As much as possible, be kind to others, you just might need their help one day. Take care of your teeth, they may need to last a very long time. Learn to be honest with others %26amp; yourself, that last one is the most difficult. Remember that whoever dies with the most toys does not really win, you can't take it with you. Sing in the shower. Laugh, it's very healing. Cultivate humility, it will make you strong in difficult times. Don't tell your children what to do, show them, they learn thru example. If you say you are going to do something then do it, your word should be law. Cultivate the eyes of a child, have wonder %26amp; awe, it will keep you young. Spend time in silence, it will teach you much. Remain teachable, there is always more to learn. Realize now that you know nothing, it will save you much time %26amp; pain. Play well with others, it never was you against them %26amp; others don't have to lose for you to win. Share your toys. Pray daily, even if you don't know what you pray to, it will get you out of yourself for a little bit. Drink water not colas, it will save your kidneys %26amp; they too may need to last a very long time. Learn to cry when you need, it is also healing. Remember you are not always the most important person in the room. Quit worrying about how you look, trust me one day you will not care nearly as much %26amp; others already don't. Cultivate peace, %26amp; remember it is always better to have peace than be right. Be curious, ask the important questions, %26amp; prove the answers to yourself. If it is the truth it will hold up to examination. Remember your feelings are not always right %26amp; are subject to change, but trust your instincts, %26amp; learn to tell the difference. Learn to be real, get comfortable in your own skin, you really are ok you just may not fully know that yet. As much as possible avoid addictions, but remember that is the nature of this world. Listen to your grandfather's stories, it is your history. Get a healthy amount of exercise, your body may need to last a lot longer than you anticipated. Do something for someone everyday, it will make you feel better about yourself. Pray for your enemies, it may not help them but you will heal faster. Remember that falling in lust does not equal falling in love %26amp; your marriage may last longer. Be happy, it's a decision not a destination. And like the famous poem says, wear sunscreen. Do you really want to look 50 at 25?What is your best advice about life?
never bite the hand that feeds you, and be mindful of the a**es you kick... you may have to kiss them later.
get some hobbies
The best advice is to live life to the fullest everyday! You only live once,so live with no regrets. And don't ever worryabout what other people think about you...10 years from now it wont matter! Ohhh..and take a moment to look at the people who are in your life...ask yourself what purpose they serve in your life...if they dont serve a purpose in your life,you dont need them,so let them go!
be your self have faith in God and life will be good.
It's short. Do something good and worthwhile with it.
the best way to figure out life is to just live it. learn from your own mistakes and experiences and pave your own path as opposed to following the one of people before you. theres no right or wrongs, its all for YOU so do what feels right, and live every day to the fullest because you never know when it will be over. growing up is part of life and as we continue to grow and change, we can help make ourselves better people and the world a better place.
You just have to keep moving forward. Some things may not benefit you even if you know them earlier. I am sure that you have more enjoyable things to do.
never wish for anything, you tend to get it
Don't get caught.





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Be Yourself and keep holding on even when the going gets tough and it seems like no one understands what you're going through.
this question may have different piece of advice two things are for sure


time and tide wait for none


life is short enjoy each moment of life


it seems to u that ur growing fast since u never had time for Urself to spend quality time with Ur loved once. its never to late to realize imp things to make Ur life beautiful. you still have entire life before u.enjoy life once change ur thinking change ur, view find happiness in all small happenings in ur life .spread happiness and live each day fully as i said time and tide wait for none . u cannot bring back what has gone u can alter ur present to live tomorrow
live in the moment and go with the flow
Don't be afraid to take risk because you only have one chance to conquer each opportunity... You have a degree now, so look into starting your own business... Start your own business... Read Rich Dad, Poor Dad... Read!... Become a connoisseur of something... Learn from the people around you....Learn about people and the different philosophies of human nature - if you didn't already do that in college... - Be a mentor to someone - even if its your own kid, it can really give you a sense of purpose.... Find joy in small pleasures and try not to want for a whole lot... If you decide not to be your own boss, demand a good salary from the boss that you choose to have, and always have an attitude that says you're worth it... Live your life as though your creating and fulfilling the story of a legacy... Don't play the lottery... Eat good foods and exercise at least 3 times a week, it revitalizes you... Do at least one outrageous thing 2x - if you didn't do it while you were in college, it really gives you a funny story to tell...
You learn as you grow. When you are young, even if you are told something is wrong you wont believe it. As you grow up you start understanding life better, learn to be patient, learn to understand others feeling, respect others feelings etc etc,





My advise for you, you are in the height of your life, enjoy life, take everything as it comes, dont expect too much from life, be happy with whatever you get. Because whatever happens is destiny. All the best.
Set goals and live life on your own terms.
its alot easier to score if you've got a goal.





and make sure you kick the ball hard as you can, otherwise it may not make the line.
oh man, i wish i'd asked this question at your age. i never did, felt it was demeaning or something to ask questions





i suppose the best advice i can offer (i'm a grandparent) is this: You're never going to be OK. You can fix and tweak and self-improve, and never arrive at a place of inner peace or satisfaction. Our brains are wired to want more, to never be satisfied.





Once I realized that, life became very, very sweet.
It's from an old song, but so true......





You can't please everyone, so you gotta please yourself.
teach a child sometung you discoverd to be of use :)
Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. good luck in this crazy thing we call life!!
dont hold on to the past, listen to your heart, and dont worry about things you know you cannot control. good luck!
Keep your eyes open and your legs closed.
Dont' let any friends or family borrow money unless you don't expect it back!
you havent lived till you have intercourse with a sheep
Try to slow down if you can... I am 32 and I felt like yesterday the day of my graduation... Life goes faster after grad





Do not make big plans, expect the unexpected...





Do not panic and be desparate.. Whatever will be will be
just live it the way you want to live. Have fun.
Treat everyday as if it were your last day alive

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