I really need some life advice!?

ok Im 22 years old and im noticing lately that im going through a late puperty and going through teen things that i never went through as a 16 year old should! i may be 22 but in my mind right now im at the 16 year old mind. im soo confused about my own thoughts right now i dont know what i really think, feel and beleive in terms of what im about to tell you.





ok so i sat down and thought about it, i love anime, and conentions, and anime guys. i've lked it since i was like 12. and really got into it when i was 15 or 16. i notice that though i really like 'real' guys'', im kinda afraid to get into a relashinship with a real guy, because if i do, then i wont be able to like anime guys anymore. sounds silly, but i thoight about it and i know its because anime guys are safe, they dont dump you, and you never have to worry about him bugging you, or huritng you, etc. and maybe a part of me is afraid to leave part of that behind. same goes for ceonventions and stuff, i looked at going to cenventions a little differently like its kinda immature to go around dressed up like characters and act like your 10. yet at the same time i feel down in the dumps because i LOVE conventions and i like anime guys. i know im afraid of the real world in a way, and that anime is kind of my escape. my mom said its ok to like all these things just dont go overboard and realize that the world isnt scary as i think it is. i think since anime helped with my childhood problems from being picked on in school and ignored, it helped me to feel safe, secere and in a fantasy place where i could escape. what is going on with me? i dont even know what i beleive in terms of how i feel about these things anymore. please help!I really need some life advice!?
You should do it if you enjoy it (what ever it is?) and it makes you feel happy and is not hurting anyone. That way you will be around people that are doing the same thing and have something in common. I was also picked on at school and from what I have seen neither one of us is missing out on much ( most of the people who hassled me are now a bunch of alcoholic drug addicted bums )





You seem mature enough to me. With the exception of your spelling. Can you please edit these words so I can understand you?





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anime guyI really need some life advice!?
alter your mindset a little. understand that things canot be stagnant forever. same goes for EVERYTHING.





accept the changes in you and in everything else as it comes. prepare to grow up and enter reality. some children are ';picked on'; which isn't unusual. it's harmless, shouldn't you come out of it already?? worse things happened (to others) and alot are living alright.





pain is part of the sweetness in love. a crude example would be labour pain. if the mother doesn't go throught the pain, the ';fruit of love'; canot come to this world.
i think, not in a bad way, but you have to get over your self you will never find a REAL nice guy if you don't try.


if you like conventions and anime guys then you don't have to stop.


Forget about you being picked on, i mean it was a long time ago, i think you just don't want to let go of evrything,like you being picked on, it's time for you to make a new start.

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