Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Need some life advice right now HELP PLEASE PLEAE :(!!?

Ok, well im 16. I've just come out of my gcse year with really good grades im over the moon about an dlike ive been told they were best in year!! Anyway last year i had a great time i suddenly was popular and had so many friends and it was great cos id like suddenly started to look after my appearance and after being teased b4 i had guys interested me and such fun in lessons and i didnt work well until revision time when i just worked really har dand thats how id id well.





BUt now were going into a levekls (2 years before uni) and so many poeple are leaving my school so theres like 25 of us now whereas before there was like 80. Anyway i returned to school today and it was sooo dull. I feel so depressed sat in lessons with 3 people and the group of people im left with are reall yweird and ive just lost motivation cos theres no fun like i enjoyed dressing up and tryng to impress people it sounds so silly but it was socialising that kept me sane. Like now its depressing.





Anyway i have a place at the school where everyone left to and im just not sure if i should maybe go there, i mean its huge for me like 800 people and im scared that a) my grades will go down and b) it will be so horrible and scary and a load of nasty people and the social will be TOO much of a distraction.





Im taking maths which i hate but i got an A in it so i have to do it for good careers but its just horrible and everyone else is doing fun subjects and cos im like the ';academic '; i have to do all these and its been sed it wil benefit my future but i just dont see how if i dont enjoy maths or want it in a career. please help with anything im just so congfused.


Need some life advice right now HELP PLEASE PLEAE :(!!?
Youve got alot of growing up to do at 16 but the most important thing you must learn now and that will follow you thru life, is you have to learn to adapt to the environment youre currently in. Youre not always going to be happy or the most liked kid on the block but you learn how to deal with people and learn from them and youll be set for life. Even adults get confused in life asGod never gave us an instruction manual on how to deal with everyday life challenges so we learn on our own. Youll soon devise your own way on how to cope with these challenges and see them as a way to grow into a stronger person who everyone else wants to be like. but all this ,like life itself takes time. Dont ever compare yourself to anyone else aswe are all unique in our own ways and no two of us are exactly alike. So be yourself and actually look for lifes challenges to grow upon and be a better you. Its these very paths that mold us into what we become later as adults and open many doors to interesting career paths too so dont take life too serious right now but grow and learn and make the world a better place then when you got here. Good luck and please someday let me know how your doingNeed some life advice right now HELP PLEASE PLEAE :(!!?
Yeah, lol, I think we have all heard that ';You don't enjoy math now, but you'll need it in the future.'; You don't see it now, but truth is we're always using math. No, you might not get into a career that's completely math based (like a math teacher/professor, or an architect) but you will still need it in every day life like buying groceries, planning a budget, saving up for a car, or even paying on a car, etc. You don't realize you will use it this much only because you're still very young and right now you don't have to worry about those things. Trust me, though, you will use it a lot in life!


As for not having a whole lot of people to socialize with in class. Don't let that get you down so easily. Sure it helps you get through it and helps keep you sane, but if it's not there are you completely going to fall apart? Probably not. It might seem that way because time will drag on without your friends, but you'll get through it. Find other ways to occupy your time and your mind in the meantime. If it's possible, listen to some tunes while you do classwork. I knew plenty of students who did that in my classes while I was still in school. You could also pick up a hobby, find something you really love and make it into a hobby.


Basically it doesn't have to be the end of the world when you set foot inside your school. It's what you make of it. Get a bit more involved in school activities and make friends with what few people are left.

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