Boyfriend life advice please help :(?

ive been dating somebody for 5 months almost 6 months on the 18th of theis month. my parents sent me to live in columbia for until the school year ends im a junior and 16 so i will be returning home in june. they sent me here because of problems i was having drugs, bad grades, being very disrespectful. i realized what i was given everything. the love of my parents, a car, money whenever i wanted but i didnt appreciate it. im here until the end of the year and im so miserable here i dont live in the city i live in the middle of nowhere basically ( i live in a resort because my dad works here and they gave him a house but after living here for 3 months it gets quite boring)..theres nothing..no stores ( theres not even a target!), no place to go its like the middle of nowhere and i have no friends here to make things worse :( the problem is my parents dont like my boyfriend...at all. when we got together i was doing drugs ( smoking weed, and e every other weekend), i was getting bad grades, and skipping school ( not whole days but usually last period), and disrespecting them. well my parents think that this is all due to him because we got together and then i started acting like that and before then i've never really had problems with them. but it wasnt because of him it was really just a stage i went through. thats why i got sent to columbia. well me and my boyfriend are still together and we've been pretty great for the 3 months ive been gone. i have an oppurtunity to come home in june and i want to be good. i dont want to do things hiding it from them. when i come home im not allowed to see him or be near him. we are in love..but is it really worth risking me getting caught seeing him and being sent to boarding school for my last year in highschool? should i wait until things cool down and then see him sometimes? or should i end it now and try to be together ( if theres still feelings) when i graduate which is only 1 year? he's in 12th grade graduating this year. he's very understanding he told me he doesnt want to be a reason i could get sent away again and whatever decesion i make hes behind it 100%. but it's so confusing because i dont want to break someones heart and not my own either :( but it's my life here and i need to do whats best for me even if my parents are wrong about him im living with them for another year and have to obide by their rules..what do you guys think? i need advice !Boyfriend life advice please help :(?
It's great that you can realise you were bad to your parents. Not many young people can see that until much later on. You're in the best position possible to turn your life around and show them how sorry you are.


Even though you've been doing things that aren't so smart, it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. You're right - you do need to do what's best for you and you do need to abide by your parent's wishes while you're under their roof. If you get caught sneaking around, they'll never trust you.


Even if you break up with your boyfriend, you need to keep in mind that whatever is meant to be will eventually find its way. Maybe now isn't the right time to be in a relationship while you're trying to get your act together. He might not be responsible for what you've been doing, but he might be influencing it. Whatever you decide is up to you, but it sounds like you have really loving parents who will do anything to make sure you get on the right path. They will always have your back.


Good luck! :)Boyfriend life advice please help :(?
Repost using paragraphs and periods. No one can understand a huge block of run-on sentences. You have to present your problem clearly if you want people to take you seriously.
Wall of text? Heesh. But I agree with the first answer.
Well, if your boyfriend is willing to work with you, you might want to hold off a little until you're out of school. You said that your parents don't like him, right? I think it's good that you're considering how it will affect them. Just remember that if they dislike him, it's probably because they're looking out for you. So just think it through, talk it over with your boyfriend, try to be honest with your parents, and be willing to compromise.
Read the whole thing and understand. I was in your shoes once. If this guy is your one and only, he will wait. You need to prioritize your life. School first. Get off the drugs for at least two more years then go ahead. Work strictly on you. Learn what you can in Columbia. Take up a hobby or craft. Be a diligent person in whatever you do. Things will come together for you but be patient with yourself. Sneaking around is a bad idea and will backfire on you in a short time. Boarding school sucks and is harder than what you have now. I was there.

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