i need some advice, i just dont know what to do anymore, i really am slacking off in school its just even know how hard i try my grades always suck anyways. My mother hates it when i get good grades and i hate it when i have to show her the bad grades. i know i can do the work its just there is no motivation in me. the other thing is when i was a kid i use to be happy and never had a worry in the world. but now i worry about everything and i practally find no enjoyment in anything anymore, i just do what i got to do and then thats it. is there something i can do?I need some life advice ?
You need to look at the positive side of things. Get involved with people that are happy and sure of them selves. Talk to the school counsel about bettering your self, I know you can do it, and you have done the first step anyway, You already ask for help, so you know what you want. Good luck to ya, and talk to your mom too, I'm sure she would love to help you, she loves you. And I'm sure there are alot of people who care.I need some life advice ?
';My mother hates it when i get good grades'; ???!!!
Motivation is addressed in section 28, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris Worry in section 6; see page N first. Study tips; section 13. '; i practally find no enjoyment in anything anymore';:- You may be depressed; there is a quiz for this on page J of section 2. Print the result, and if confirmed, show to your parents, school counselor, and doctor. View page R in section 2, teen? depression, and eventually, the rest.
Trust me I know what you are going through I've been there done that, but you have to know that it's just life. You can only do what you can, and just do your best. I don't want to bring religion into it, but just pray about it, thats what helps me, I mean in this world you have to believe in something, and start with yourself. There is going to be haters and even family members that will bring you down, but you have to be able to tell yourself that you can do it. Get all of the drama and negativity out of your life cause stress will kill you. For me my faith is what keeps me stronger.
I'll probably get a million mean messages about this but i don't care.
You need to find God, if you already haven't, you should ask him, he'll help you find the Strength to overcome your weakness' repent yourself you'll feel as if all burdens have been lifted of you shoulders.
Here's some help.
http://www.worshipquest.org/
May God be with you!
Good-Luck!
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You are young! Enjoy your life everyday. Try to succeed in everything you do, as long as it makes you feel good. I know how stressful life can seem sometimes, I live with a mental illness and sometimes I'm happy and sometimes I'm sad, but I try not to let the little things stress me out. School is important, no matter how you look at it. If you look inside yourself, you will know you are something special and you were brought here for a reason. Try and keep a journal, it helps to alleviate the stress and heartache sometimes. I know it seems silly but trust me it helps. Also, if you feel you cant get past that motivation block- find something interesting to do, draw-paint-run-walk-sing-bowl-play board games- be productive, don't let the worst overcome you! I hope this helped!!
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