I hate my life....advice please?

well i dont want to bore anyone with my life but right now i feel alone and since i have no one to turn to i thought maybe someone here might liisten.





nothing is like it use to be, which i guess is normal, sparks go away after a while. but its not just sparks, i feel nothing for my boyfriend anymore, i hate to say this but at times i feel hate. ( because of all the times hes been rude , mean ,weird ,etc) ive cried so many times, when he promised he would never put me through that.





i dont regret having our son, i love him w/all my heart. but i do regret other things.





my relationship w/my family has turned sour because of him, whenever my family told me that he was no good for me i would always stand up for him and defend him . now i see that they were right.


but i feel its too late.





i dont know what to do, i go to college thanks to my dads help, i dont work because of the baby and school.





he got laid off.....we live at my moms house and have no where else to go, not that i want to go with him anyways....





i hate my life, and i dont know how to fix it. all i can do is cry and cry and cry. and i know that wont help but .....i just dont know.





i chose the wrong guy ..... he doesnt respect me, doesnt listen when i speak, im pretty much talking to a brick wall. and i just feel like hes not there for me, at least not in the same way i was always there for him





i made the wrong choices.....





i just want to hear advice....anything to make me feel betterI hate my life....advice please?
Obviously the relationship is not doing you any good. It sounds to me as if you COULD be suffering from depression and you could benefit from talking to a doctor. Crying all the time is no good for you or your child. Good on you for going to college. I study while raising a family and know how hard it can be.


I went through the same thing as you but wasted twenty years of my life before I left the father of my child.


It must be hard for you both living at your mothers house and I guess he feels a bit useless because he is not working and can not take care of his family.


First thing is for you to see a doctor about all that crying - before it begins to effect your studies.


THen you need to sit down and have a good think about what YOU want. This man is the father of your child and therefore will always be a part of your life but if the relationship is making you so miserable it may be time to cut your losses and break it off with him.


Don't be too hard on yourself, we all make mistakes and the wrong choices at times. Just remember, life is not a dress rehearsal. THIS IS THE REAL THING and it is up to us to make the changes we need in order for us to be happy.I hate my life....advice please?
well cheer up i dont know what your going through right now but if your boyfriend dosent listen, respect etc. you then you cant be in a loveless relationship just dump him and start over with your son and graduate college and im sure the right guy will come into your life when you dont even expect it.
Actually now would be the best time to make changes in your life while you are living with your Mom. If you honestly feel this way, do the mature thing and decide what is best for you and your child, then act on it. Create a life's plan and follow it.
well it isnt all ur fault........


DUMP him


he doesnt deserve u
I would break up with him and find a guy who you do love and who does respect you. Just because you are with this guy and you have a child with him does not mean you are bound to be with him. Yes you have a child together but you can find someone who does make you happy. Graduate from college, get a great job, and focus on you and your son. get rid of the guy. Find a new and better guy...a guy who you love and want to wake up to everyday! It might take time but its worth it!
Listen, you seem like a caring person so you know as well i do thats its time to move on. If you wont do it for you do it for your child because the longer you stay with him the worst its gonna get and your child an family deserve more then that. Just know that its this guys loss not yours and you deserve better, so don't be silly about this and move on. If you are a good person good things will come....in time! just be patience. The only one thats needs you now is your child
I am so sorry things are not going well for you. I have never had any of these issues so I may not be the best to give you advice. But, since you call him your boyfriend I am assuming your not married. If he is not willing to discuss the issues with you and attempt to work on the relationship, get rid of him. Plenty of men are still great fathers, even though they weren't great boyfriends/husbands As for your family, if anyone can you help you through a situation like this it's them. Keep your head up and concentrate on college. Your life can always be improved. Thoughts are with you.