Life Advice? Don't know what to do?

I am 24 years old, in an ok relationship (I am happy enough, all our problems we always figure out and work on). He treats me well, I think he is hot etc.. everything is okay. We have been together for 3 years and I do not think he will ever want to be more serious then we are, ie. We live together and have for over 2 years. I feel like I am missing out on things for a relationship that isn鈥檛 perfect, but I know all relationships aren鈥檛 perfect. I鈥檝e always wanted to travel, and have the money now to do so. I just keep getting older. What should I do? We do have our problems but I know he would work then out with me if I wanted too. What would you do?Life Advice? Don't know what to do?
It sounds like you are on the right track. A relationship must be grown, it isn't something that just happens. Keep the communication chain open and continue working on everything. You should know by now if this is the man for you, assuming he is then continue to build on what you have.Life Advice? Don't know what to do?
Sounds like you're in a sane, stable relationship. Good for you.


The important thing to get framed up in your head is: the relationship is not an anchor, it's a launching platform. It is the firm ground you can return to.





If you want to travel, work it out with him how that will happen. Make your wants known, honestly, and collaborate with him. Perhaps he'd like to go with you. Perhaps he's not interested in travelling at all. Either way, be in partnership with him about what you want in your life.
Take a break, get away and do some mind and soul searching.
Get him off dead center and either marry you or your move on.


No point in staying in it if you don't have the commitment... and certainly is no point to making babies with this guy.


Better to move on and get a small garage apartment and start dating again instead of wasting more time.


Right now, you are off the market. Get back out there and find what you want!
go live your life, everyone we meet is there to bring us to the ONE we are meant to be with and in the process teach us things! so go live your life dont sacrifice yourself or dreams you only get one chance at this life! if you were meant to be he will be there when you get back or he will go with you! if he dont go with you then you need to ask the other question on your mind,(do i put up with this lack of support and interest?)which will lead you back to my comment through pain and experience this is how we learn what love really is.. good luck to you
Sounds like you are at the point in your life that you realize you want more. You are valuable. You are worth the commitment, if that is what you want. Maybe your bf is getting a little complacent in this relationship. He doesn't really have to work at much. We teach people how to treat us. He has all the perks of a stable committed marriage without the commitment. You are a young woman that wants to experience life. And I don't blame you. If you are not getting what you what out of his relationship then you owe it to him to walk away. And you owe it to yourself. Personally, I believe that we deserve God's perfect best for our lives, and if you are not receiving that, you should be. Maybe it's time to take your live back into your own hands and pursue your dreams. With or without him. Hope this helps. Best of luck to you!