Monday, August 23, 2010

PLEASE help me(life advice)?

I have been contemplating about this every second that I am awake over the past 2 weeks. Here is my story:





I moved to the united states when I was 11 from Poland with my parents. Since then, Poland became part of the european union(and im still a citizen). I have been both happy and unhappy in the u.s. I like the economy and all the freedoms, but I do not like the culture and other things as much. So over the past two weeks I have been craving about going back to europe and maybe starting my life over there(what country I dont know yet). I am 18, so I would go to college. However, if I leave the u.s. I cant come back(dont ask why). Also, as Ive said before the economy here is great and I have a lot of possiblities here with jobs that pay a lot. I know that western european countries have a good economy as well, but it just seems that their standard of life is lower. So ok, the economy here is good, but I am very homesick of europe. And whos to say I cant be successfull there? Cont...PLEASE help me(life advice)?
The answer lies within your values and what is important to you. Americans tend to be more materialistic than the rest of the world, we always think that we need new and better things to be happy. For some reason we are more concerned with what are neighbors think of us and our social status then spending quality time with friends, family, and loved ones. The European value system tends to be much different, with more emphasis on family and community, not just the pursuit of material wealth. So you need to ask yourself what your real values are and how do you need to live your life to be truly happy. Forget about what American advertisers tell you that you need to be happy, and look within yourself for the answers. Take some time to do this. Then just follow your heart and it will tell you what to do.PLEASE help me(life advice)?
there must be someway that you can contact someone in Poland and discuss life there, what they like and dislike. Maybe that would help you make a decision which . Hope I helped. Good luck
Go--live life-the American dream is a myth.
Seven years ago you were a child. You thought like a child and behaved like a child. Are you idealizing a childish memory? At seven no one is aware of the difficulties and realities of adult life. You may have been misinformed about your ability to come back. See an immigration lawyer, to find out your real legal status, and what can be done about the situation. God be with you.
I don't know, Mac. I have to agree that you may be holding onto childhood memories. You need to base your decision on where you can make a good living for yourself and a future family.





I've decided that there is no perfect place to live. Life is where you make it. And also...our economy in the U.S. right now is definitely not that great but hopefully it will turn around.





Best of luck to you!
stay here. I lived in Eastern Europe as well. You will never like some things about the US, but it's just better for you. Besides, you can always just move to AMerican town with a large Polish community, depending on the state you want to live in. there is enough Polish people here to continue living by the Polish culture

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