Saturday, August 21, 2010

Traditional life, advice...?

Would you rather live a traditional life with kids and children or a life without attachments and complete liberty to support only yourself and your ideals/aspirations. I'm 18 and I'm moving out of my parents house before December to Spain and I've started bartending to pay for my expenses and to pay for art school in Spain. When did you move out? Are you doing what you love and how do you see your life? Any advices? It just seems that my friends are into getting married at an early age and making a family. I'm not against it but I'm not fond of it.Traditional life, advice...?
Yeah I'm not a big fan of the getting married have kids live in a house all that, especially for someone in their 20s. I would wan't to travel, explore, experience the world/life/everything before I settle down. So go to Spain, enjoy it, experience it, learn from it. Have fun. Don't worry about 2 years from now, whtever happens will happen. Just enjoy whatever you're doing. I'm 18 I haven't moved out, but I plan to next year. I'm so excited.Traditional life, advice...?
You shouldn't be worrying about marriage at 18. There will be plenty of time for that after you've enjoyed your independence. If you decide to get married and settle down, it should be because you've met the right person; and when you do meet someone you want to build a life and a family with, the idea will become appealing to you at that point.


Going to school in Spain sounds like it will be a great experience. I hope you enjoy it.
You choose your own life. Don't plan a life because of peer pressure or because all your friends are doing it. If you have a vision of a single life, going to Spain and art school, pursue that vision. Many people have no vision of a life on their own, so they seek someone else to complete them. The truth is, life will be fulfilling and satisfying only when you are a complete person, all by yourself.
I know I can't stand these little chicks that get married, have children and do nothing with their life. Their life is ****** up, they won't have time to peruse greater things in life when they could have simply waited. Now, they have to be housemakers, pleasure the guy and take care of children 24/7 job. Some even start working because the guy is a real bum. You start living at 18 but those that waste it will regret it when they're older. I love Spain, it's soo fun and beautiful. Trust me, you'll never be bored; there's a party everyday. They have more bars and restaurants that any other country so you'll find jobs in bartending and tourist tip really good. Good Luck.

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