Life advice? I'm confused.?

First problem: Best friend: Recently, I have been talking to my best friend about hanging out, but she always says she busy hanging out with other people AKA her boyfriend and soon to be other best friend.I've been gone for 2 weeks but she's never taken the time to ask me to hangout. She's also a compulsive liar! About everything! I just can't decide if we should be best friends anymore if she's going to act like this.





Second problem: Crush: I have had a crush on one of my guy friends for a while. I told him I liked him, but ever since that, he's been acting like a jerk. Before I told him I liked him, he told me he thought i was pretty. But ever since I told him I liked him, he hasn't said it once. He has done mean things to me like ';fake'; asking me out just to put me down. And when he does mean things to me, I flip out and get really mad, which gets us in a fight and makes me resent him even more! But I still have a crush on him that I just can't get out of my head! HELP!Life advice? I'm confused.?
First problem: OMG! I'm in the same situation! I think you should say like, ';Since you obviously enjoy being with your other bff, and I want to hang out with you, lets all hang out together'' If she declines let her go, if she doesn't have time for you but another friend, or doesn't want to be with you at all, your wasting your time with that girl.





Second problem: Ask him to like a friend day, you, him, and a couple other guys. If he says NO, why do you like him if he doesn't like you? Let him go, I bet there is another guy who is similar to him that isn't a jerk! GOOD LUCK!Life advice? I'm confused.?
Well, I have a friend like that but how do you no she is lieing u may think 99 percent she is but she may not be. iI just asked my bf (best friend) to hangout and she said that she had to plug in her phone. You should proably ignore your friend .





You crush is acring like that cuz he thinks u no hes like u too and he doesnt wanna say it out load most guys treat u like crap ehrn they like u . Take him inprivate asking if he likes u.








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About the best friend-thing; She doesn't sound like such a good friend. to me. And I don't know, maybe you could really sit down and talk to her about it. Lay it all out there. It's always best to get it out in the open.





Maybe the same thing about your crush. Talk to him, explain how you really feel and if he still acts like a jerk, the the hell with him. Find someone who deserves you!
first problem : talk to your best friend. you should tell her everything she does that makes you mad. because if you keep it in for a long time ou'll end up hating her.





second problem : tell him to stop acting like a jerk.
One: Maybe you should still be friends just not BFF'S. Stll try to hang out iwth her just not as often. She'll eventually get off her high horse about her bf and come crawling back to you. Take her bak its what frienz do





Two: Ignore it. Let him be. Tell him if hes gonna do that then you don't need to be friends anymore
She's going through a phase in the relationship where everything but 'him' is clouded out of sight.





In a little while it WILL get back to normal, but don't let it ruin your friendship before then. The same thing happened to me this year, he was the bests friend I ever had, too. =/





Give it a month, maybe month and a half. If it's not over by then, just leave her until they break up. She'll come running back to you, trust me.











Ha, yeah. Admitting it can change some things if you do it at the wrong time. Ask the kid, straight up, if he likes you anymore. If not, then just screw it. It'll be hard, but worth it. Don't talk to him for 2 weeks, and talk and flirt with plenty of other guys.





It won't work if you don't confront him about this first.








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oh personal experience on the second one!! he is a loser, start liking someone else and you will get over him in no time, he doesn't deserve u


first one: ughhh get a new bffl!! she is an idiot to treat you that way and you should stop putting up with it


find someone you have a lot in common with and just hang out with her more


don't be clingy tho, just get her to like u on your own


hope it helps and good luck!


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