Saturday, August 21, 2010

Seeking life advice on some things?

So...my friend told me to do this exercise. she said that it works better if you do it with a certified professional, but I have no money. I'm just kinda lost in life, and I'm supposed to just write 25 random things about me. leaving you to sort out any ';prevailing issues'; as my friend calls it and comment on them. maybe just comment on a couple things. Thanks for the halp!








1. I am sick of fake friends who cant call or just hang out instead of blowing money!





2. I love music. It helps with my moods.





3. Yeah i have not yet graduated high school but i will be in June and if you think im a disappointment well you can **** off cause im not doing it for you now am i????





4. My cat just got neutered and not it was not cheap. $180 :(





5. I have more bills than anyone im sure cause ashley is in debt. And ya kno im happy with that its the stupid fake friends that piss me off.





6. I have been to one wedding soon to be 3!! one of them my own :)





7. I am fed up with hypocrites i deal with one on a daily basis and no it is not ashley!





8. I am tired of ppl saying i should leave ashley or the father of his boys being so 2 faced acting like he cares but then to me its a whole different thing he is saying!





9. I want to be a baby daddy but i can not afford it so it is not gonna happen.








10. I have the 2 best friends in the world!!! Annica and my 2am walks to walmart girl Abby








11. I may not be perfect or have a perfect relationship but im sick of ppl saying that either is fucked up.








12. All my close friends have moved or are planning on moving.








13. I do high school online.








14. I was adopted at birth with a family that i dont kno but then they could not take care of me and at 6 months i then was adopted again by my mother now.








15. I currently live in a house with my girlfriend that i lived in when i was 6 months to a year old.








16. I may not love my life but i dont absolutely hate it.








17. Half of the people on my myspace dont even talk to me and i am contemplating canceling my myspace.








18. Pretty sure bills suck but when they are paid i feel accomplished because like none of my friends live on their own and they have no clue!








19. I am sick of a 15 year old telling me that God is responsible for everything and saying i am a disappointment when she isnt even graduated! also telling me to live with my mother and her fucked up boyfriend who is a pedophile.








20. I hate how ppl use mistakes you have made as justifying their own actions.








21. I do not forgive easy.








22. I have lost 5 pounds so far only 115 to go!!








23. I hate lectures from ppl that think they are helping me when they just make me mad as hell.








24. I am sick of ppl using an excuse to not take ******* 2 mins out of their unemployed day and wishing my bf a happy birthday when they are his best friends! And one was on her myspace!








25. My TRUE friends (which is only 3 ppl , 4 if you include Ashley) are my family and my life!Seeking life advice on some things?
When you write 25 random things about yourself, you help your certified professional, because this way you give him/her some things to talk about, thus you make his/her job easier as to analyzing you. This is what shrinks (psychologists and psychiatrist) get paid for, and they get paid real big bucks!!





However, over here, on Yahoo Answers, when you write the very same 25 random things about yourself, chances are that you receive little or no answers. Partly because, on the negative side...





1) Your list of 25 random statements can make you look like you're self-centered and you care only about yourself -- and this usually turns people off. Even if you're not self-centered. Even if you're an extrovert. Therefore, on the long run -- in addition to developing a list of 25 things about yourself and your likes and dislikes -- you might also want to develop a different, ';I'm ready to help you';, attitude. You can start by asking yourself, ';What would be a list of 25 things I could do for him/her/them/others?'; and ';What would be a list of 25 services I could provide?';





2) Here at Yahoo Answers, we're not paid to answer questions; we're not even certified experts at this, so don't expect a whole lot!





3) We do come up with many-many good answers from time to time, however, it'd take way too long, to touch on any of these 25 issues in all seriousness.





However, on the positive side...





1) Some shrinks are good, and may be able to help you.





2) Some of us here on Yahoo are ALSO pretty good about answering questions, so provided you ask many quick and easy (and preferably very specific) questions, you may get lucky from time to time (here on Yahoo). You may get some great answers some of the time, and for free, too!

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