Love life advice needed.help needed with a confusing guy?

i like this guy.


and he likes me.


we went out for three moths and he recently started likeing me again.


he's really shy and all(except for 2or3) of his ex girlfriends has asked him out.


he told me a few weeks ago that he likes me but wanted to be friends for now (because a grl broke up w/ him after a day and half cuz she said me and the guy would be better together) and he said we'd maybe go back out later.





my question: what should i do. should i ask him out or what??


we only have a week and 3 days left of school and i won't see him all summer cause we're both really busy





if it helps he's my best guy friend whom i can tell everything and anything to and i know i could trust him with my 鈾?AGAIN.Love life advice needed.help needed with a confusing guy?
I would tell him how you feel right away. You have to go for the things you want in life, its just too short not too!!!!Love life advice needed.help needed with a confusing guy?
i would talk it over with him. Tell him that u dont want to lose him.


get him into a room and tell him that even if he doesnt want to get back together that u still love him. Kinda give him the feeling that he didnt something wrong and let him realize that he was happy with u even if he wants to be just friends. It will probably bring back memories on why he fell in love with u in the first place.
It's sort of odd that his decision to tell you his feelings was based on a girl he dated for a day and a half's gut instincts. But, I can't see what it would hurt to ask him to hang out or something. I wouldn't make it an official date or anything...just do something fun together and see what happens...





Good luck! :)
Well it sounds to me like you really like this guy and i think you should go for it. But make sure he likes you as much as you like him first. And i'm sure you guys can't be so busy over the summer that you have no time for each other? there's got to be at least one day? It will all work out!


Gooodluck!
I think this all depends on you. I you feel like you can trust him with your heart, then go for it. Do it fast, or you might lose him to a summer love.
...yeahhhh


you sound like your in high school.


so youd ';go out'; with him for three days and then..?


lol a day and a half?


dang. he sounds like the commitment type.


your young. go and have fun instead of stressing over this.
If you won't see him, what is the point of dating?
no idea...but you should go and tell someone how you feel if you have just 3 days
I like how your going through something i went through...


Which means that i have a great answer for you.. I Have a Guy Best friend and we used to go out.. We dont anymore but he wanted to.. it was hard for me to sad no so i blew him off.. You should not really try to be with him because what if you two break up? That means you wont have that good friend you used to have then your upset because your regreting you ever had a relationship with him... Keep his friendship he will still love you... Belive me... He will =]
DONT GO OUT WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND!...trust me ive done it before......its more complicated then dating a random guy......emotions get too envoloved...its awkward...and when you break up...things are never the same......and i know your probably like me and thinking that wow.....you know....im already so close to him....and we know so much about each other....it should be perfect. lol....it doesnt work that way.....you end up arguing all the time...and its hell.....i would just let him go and do his own thing....and u do your own thing. I just hope he doesnt start acting all jealous when u start dating someone else.....thats another hassle to deal with....ive been their done that......lol...its alot harder to have a guy as a best friend then a girl sometimes.....but good luck anyways......;)