Take a big deep breath.
Take another one.
You are going to be okay.
You've got guts for following your heart, that's taking a risk, and risk-taking is an essential part of success. Unfortunately, sometimes it doesn't work out the way you want. Following your heart is not stupid! You are not stupid! Some people know what they want to do at a young age and are able to do it. Most don't. Don't beat yourself up.
Its true that there are a lot of people wanting to go into multimedia. If you have the passion for, go back to it, cause what matters most is what you are able to work hard at. If you are excited about it, and have talent, and stick with it, you will get somewhere.
If you have any interest in the medical field, and have the energy to work hard in that field, then do that, you will be rewarded for it. It is more stable than multimedia. But if you don't have any interest in it, forget it. Your mom probalby just wants you to go into that field because it is stable. But mostly she just wants you to be happy. She probably doesn't understand what you want, and it scares her.
No one can make this decision for you, and it is a hard decision. No matter what you choose, there will be parts you don't like. Plus, as you get older what you want will probably change.
Whatever it is that RIGHT NOW gives you energy and excitement, whatever it is RIGHT NOW you think you can work hard at, that is the direction to go.
And get your degree, you will never regret finishing college, no matter what you major in.
Smile! You have more character, originality, and guts than the people who just play it safe. Its hard to see it now, but you will learn a lot from the experience you've had.My life is so terrible,I need a good advice?
You Can Learn IT Stuffs From Library Books, There Is No Necessities To Go For A Course. Take Something Else Instead ((=
your own. you will never be happy following someone else's. EVER!
IT, Computers and multi-media opportunities will still be around in the future, despite a lot of jobs being outsourced to other countries. Medicine is also a needed and good field. From the very limited information shared, it appears that you have two good choices at least. I would recommend following your dreams. As for the mulit-level marketing company, I would suggest not pouring any more money into it until you have your feet under you again. There are some good and legitimate network marketing companies, but I encourage you to put first things first. Your family and education are more important.
God, Grant me the serinity
To accept the things I cannot Change
The courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference.
Follow this path and this can change ';your'; life not the path of how others view your life.,
I am a mother also i have 2 young children i would like for them to grow up and be doctors but if being a doctor is not what they want then i just want them to do something that will make them happy and that is all that matters to me. I think you should do what you want to do. Your mother can not live her life though you. You are the one that will have to actually do the job every day and if you are not happy with your job it would make for a miserable career.
try computer engineering its good and haves a lot of job demanding $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$(it pays a lot)
tell this to your mom its good and haves a lot of job demanding $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$(it pays a lot)
I hate to bring this up, but what happens when your mom isn't there anymore? Or your cousin doesn't talk to you that much? Will you be happy with what you decided?
Your mom may know whats best for you. Marketing investment may look like a nice way to make quick money but they are very unstable. Nursing is a much needed profession and will keep you in a steady source of money for the rest of your life after school. Go back to school and study hard.
You should go ahead with IT Network or Support... there many jobs out there looking for IT net or support... plus the person answering this question is Dir. of IT department of cable-vision....
You can't follow some one eles dream and be happy. Tell your Mom it is your life and go follow your heart and forget the M%26gt;l marketing almost no one makes money on them.
Got to school and major in English. You do need help with it.
Life isn't a car. It's doesn't have brakes or go in reverse. make life yours and like dodge says grab it by the horns. Whatever you've learned it belongs to you. and now that it belongs to you you can do whatever you want to with it. And please realize that when you sleep at night those dreams belong to you. Only you can change your dreams. You may not have any money but you still have your knowledge. take what you've learned and make yourself a better,stronger ,faster and wiser person.
Follow your own heart.. Can you take a semester off and not lose your scholarship..
A warm white beach, crystal blue water and no pressure of trying to please everyone else might be the answer...
Why not TRY what you mom requests, and do some Multi-level marketing in your spare time.? That way, you can do both.
Go with your heart. You need to follow your own dream because it's you who will have to live with the results. Your mother won't. Good luck.
Like you my son is going to college this year...so I am going to advice you as I would him. Go for your dream, study what you want to study and be happy...If your mother wants to be a docotr tell her to go back to shcool...it would be horrible if you were to work for the rest of your life at something you do not love....so follow YOUR dream and be happy
On the other hand if you like medicine and nursing you can always take courses and decide later...you do not have to decide right now. about the rest of your life..take courses, and you just might surprise yourself. I studied political science and to this day I regret that I did not go into medicine or nursing....but then again I became a mother and never worked....so you really do not know what life has in store for you ...so study what you love ,and college will be fulfilling, remember it is your scholarship and being successful in life is not always about having a high paying job that you hate.
why don't you forget about MLM...it will kill you...
Why not consider a health related it course...
Then you make your mom happy %26amp; you create great income potential.
Get back to school.. both nursing and computers are great fields. If you don't want to be a nurse you'd not be any good at it. You can't listen to your friends with the next big deal or great scheme. This is your life not a dress rehearsal so you have to pick the career you will be happiest in. If it is computers.. so be it.
Good Luck
I think uptill now u listen to ur heart or what ur frieds have told u.Now this time for a change u listen to what ur mother is telling i think it definately make a change. wish u best of luck for ur future %26amp; dont loose hopes.
The only bad decision is the one that is not taken. You have failed not because you are stupid but because you haven't put your heart in the things you want to do. Technology is a non-ending field. It is changing so dramatically day by day, and our world is getting so technified that there will always be a need for people with preparation and skills to do related jobs. IT is about imagination and imagination only is the limit. You have not lost your life but you are losing time. It is necessary for you to realize that you need to take a different road when the roads you have traveled have got you nowhere. You fell, so it is time to stand up and go towards your dreams. Success is ahead of you, never behind and every one thousand miles walk starts with the first step.
Follow your heart. You have only one life to live so, give it your best.
Do what you want to do and have a passion for. I was in the same spot you were in 30 years ago. I caved and did what my mom wanted me to do. She refused to pay for my college education unless I did. As a result I was un-happy with her career choice for me and I live in regret of what could have been. I would hate for you to live there with me. You can be great at what you like or so-so at what she likes. It is your future and life not hers.
You must live your own life! Your friends, family, mom all want you to do THEIR dream, but you have to choose what is right for you. Study successful people who are doing what you want to be doing and adapt it to your life. Read books about successful people who had to overcome great obstacles to survive. Interview people in your field who can give you advice from their experience not opinion. Even if it takes you 10 years to achieve your dream, that is much better than living an entire life of following other peoples expectations.
You have to remember that your life is your own, not your mom's or your friends. You will never be happy if you don't follow your heart, no matter how much money you make. There will always be jobs in IT as the global economy is shifting rapidly in that direction. There will definitely be an increase in the amount of people looking for IT carreers, but at the same time the opportunities will increase as well. Never forget your family, but realize that your future is under your control, and no one else.
i can tell you from past experience that you should do what YOU feel, you should do. Nobody has walked in your shoes nor will they consider it, even your mom!
its your life/dream and you have to live it. Everything happens for a reason (meaning there is cause and effect no matter what you do) listening to your mom MIGHT (and i use that loosley) be the ';right'; thing to do, but you have lessons you need to learn from the universe that the path you take is for your steps alone!
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